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Help with cat in leasehold flat - Director with passive/aggressive behaviour

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  • frogglet
    frogglet Posts: 773 Forumite
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    Don't think Alan is an animal lover then.
    I'd keep the cat and see what happens. As long as it isn't pooing in the woodland.

  • macman
    macman Posts: 53,129 Forumite
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    AdrianC said:
    frogglet said:
    I'd keep the cat and see what happens. As long as it isn't pooing in the woodland.
    That's bears.
    Or catholics.
    But definitely not Rose Kennedy.
    No free lunch, and no free laptop ;)
  • AdrianC
    AdrianC Posts: 42,189 Forumite
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    macman said:
    AdrianC said:
    frogglet said:
    I'd keep the cat and see what happens. As long as it isn't pooing in the woodland.
    That's bears.
    Or catholics.
    But definitely not Rose Kennedy.
    I'm currently reading "American Tabloid". All bets are firmly off when it comes to that family.
  • Alan2020
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    Gunner276 said:
    Alan2020 said:
    I think your number 3 is a bit unfair.  There’s tons of medical evidence that dogs and cats are beneficial for mental health, none for peanuts! 
    There isn’t any medical evidence from any credible source. Firstly having a pet is ethnically questionable, I highly doubt the animal has a free choice, it’s akin to animal slavery. Secondly, in the UK people aren’t into alternative mumbo jumbo. The only dogs I am aware of people actively supporting are guide dogs and these are viewed as working dogs.
    Pets are from an ethical point of view, animals enslaved to please a selfish person who cannot make connections with normal humans due to the effort needed - could be laziness or some medical issues. People should be supporting animal sanctuaries and pay to protect the animals homes if they really are animal lovers
    https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-018-1613-2

    A quick web search returned medical evidence from what I believe is a credible source.
    If you read it, it just reviews what others have done and says needs more investigation - polite way of saying not enough scientific evidence.
  • Seashell517
    Seashell517 Posts: 275 Forumite
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    OP - I understand that being told you can't have the cat and then keeping it goes against most people's wanting 'to do the right thing'. But in this case, I would honestly just wait and see if anything further happens. I can't see the directors wanting to spend money on getting your cat removed when it's indoor and therefore not directly effecting anybody else living in the block. (You would need to declare that you've breached the lease when selling, but I can't see that many people would be put off buying it because you kept a cat when the director's said no...)
  • Ditzy_Mitzy
    Ditzy_Mitzy Posts: 1,952 Forumite
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    OP - I understand that being told you can't have the cat and then keeping it goes against most people's wanting 'to do the right thing'. But in this case, I would honestly just wait and see if anything further happens. I can't see the directors wanting to spend money on getting your cat removed when it's indoor and therefore not directly effecting anybody else living in the block. (You would need to declare that you've breached the lease when selling, but I can't see that many people would be put off buying it because you kept a cat when the director's said no...)
    Your confidence is admirable, however the OP needs to make damn sure there isn't a forfeiture clause/power of re-entry present in her lease before digging her heels in.  
  • martindow
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    Leaving the morality of keeping pets and going back to page 4, the OP quoted this
    The lease says exactly this: "Animals: a) not to keep any animal on the Property without the prior written consent of the Company or the Management Company. b) To comply with such directions as the Company or the Management Company may from time to time issue regarding the keeping of any animal on the Property and to ensure that such animal shall not cause any nuisance or disturbance or foul any Common Parts or the Amenity Area of the Woodland Area".
    That certainly implies that there is no blanket ban and that consent could be granted.  The OP needs to try to talk (calmly) to the other directors to see whether there are sympathetic voices there in an effort to get permission.
    This was suggested earlier, but i am not sure whether the OP has tried this ...

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