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Help with cat in leasehold flat - Director with passive/aggressive behaviour

Hi, I hope people with experience with these issues can help me with this matter.

My partner and I bought a flat 4 months ago and moved in with our lovely 1-year-old cat. Everything was going well and the neighbours are all lovely but for one of the Directors, who lives in our building and exhibits some passive/aggressive behaviour (e.g. power/control).

A few weeks ago, during a group conversation on the residents' WhatsApp chat about the snowy weather, my partner mentioned our cat was enjoying seeing the snow from the first time through the window. A couple of weeks later we received a letter from the Managing company saying it had been reported we had a cat in our home.

We were shocked as we never thought that could be an issue (we both come from countries where having a cat as a homeowner is not a problem; and although we read the lease, we weren't expecting to see anything important regarding pets so we did loosely: lesson learnt). That was our mistake and upon receipt of the letter, we re-read the lease carefully, which states: "Not to keep any animal on the Property without the prior written consent of the Company or the Management Company".

However, this passive-aggressive Director said that: "the lease clearly says pets are not allowed", to which another Director replied: "It does not say that, but they need to ask for permission". We then replied to the Managing company, admitted having our cat in our home, apologised for the breach of procedure and asked to please advise on how to seek retrospective consent. We explained we truly never thought that could be a problem and never hid the fact that we had a cat, as we live in a ground floor flat with 10 windows, so the blinds are always opened and we even posted about our cat on the chat.

More important, we explained that the cat is a necessity for my fiancee's chronic lung condition, which was diagnosed 5 years ago and can be triggered by stress, etc. During the early part of the lockdown, my fiancee was off sick for 2 months with anxiety due to the new restrictions and being classed as an extremely vulnerable person and forced to shield under Governments' guidelines. As my fiancee and I have no other family in the UK and with me working as an essential worker, she was left at home alone on a daily basis. Hence, I looked at various options to assist with her healing process and that's when I got her the cat, which has greatly improved her emotional wellbeing. To date her health remained stable; however, upon receipt of the notification on this matter and a response from the Managing company 3 days ago denying our request and simply stating the cat needs to go, my fiancee has again fallen ill, unable to do her work properly and she is now off sick with anxiety and a persistent cough.

We feel the decision is biased and unfair based on various facts. Firstly, the same Director that reported our cat is the one that gets to decide (with the others) whether the cat stays or not. Secondly, we understand that having an indoor microchipped vaccinated kitten residing in our household bears no nuisance to anybody in our apartment block. Thirdly, we see around a dozen dogs with their owners from our ground floor windows daily; indoor cats in various windowsills; and other cats strolling freely outside. Additionally, we have never complained about a visitor who comes every Saturday to our building with 2 lovely but very loud dogs. When we see all these pets in our Estate, we are trying to be empathic and compassionate neighbours who understand that pets are as important as any family member for their owners under any circumstance; and even more so during a global pandemic. 

We have now replied asking for an explanation on the decision-making process and reasonable grounds for denial. We have said we hope they will reconsider their decision, as  alternatively, as a last resort I shall be compelled to seek legal guidance on this matter. However, in the meantime, my fiancee is anxious about the matter and the whole situation seems unfair. I will be grateful for any advice on this matter. Thank you very much.





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  • seradane
    seradane Posts: 306 Forumite
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    Have you actually had a response to your request yet or are you just assuming they will refuse?
  • deannagone
    deannagone Posts: 1,101 Forumite
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    edited 1 March 2021 at 1:35PM
    I dislike 'passive aggressive' labels.  They can be used quite judgementally.  The director could just be a stickler for following the rules, which without any ill intent, you haven't followed.  I hope this will be resolved.., but it might be helpful if you stopped 'girding your loins' in advance of needing to
    . I'm afraid it could be a case of pot kettle black here lol.  I mean this nicely, just trying to get you on the most successful path to getting what you want.
  • greatcrested
    greatcrested Posts: 5,925 Forumite
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    edited 1 March 2021 at 3:35PM
    You bought the lease to a flat without properly reading the lease you were buying. Considering you probably paid several hundred thousand pounds for the lease, that was.... unwise.
    The lease says clearly you need permission for a pet. You moved a cat in without seeking permission.
    Breaching the terms of your lease is .... inadvisable.
    Breaching the terms of a lease can in extreme cases lead to forfeiting the lease. Not, you'll be pleased to learn, in a case like this, but I mention it to show that lease terms are serious. They are there for a reason.
    You can certainly ask for an explanation for the refusal, which might or might not be forthcoming. It could simply be the result of previous bad experiences, or complaints by other leaseholders - smell? fleas? Noise? Faeces?. (Yeah yeah! You know and I know that your cat does not smell, maiow or have fleas, and always uses  a litter tray, but other leaseholders don't know that..)
    You can also of course seek legal advice, and/or take legal action. This is likely to be costly, and highly uncertain in outcome- but it is your right to try.
  • Ditzy_Mitzy
    Ditzy_Mitzy Posts: 1,924 Forumite
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    One more thing to consider: you live there and, having just bought, will need to continue living there for the foreseeable.  It's not the best idea, when living in a flat in the same building as other flats, to make a mess on one's own doorstep.  Attempting to pit the various members of the board of directors against each other might well do just that.  By all means pursue the matter, but exercise caution and be prepared to back down and ditch the cat if push comes to shove.  Hostile neighbours can make life unpleasant, to say the least.
  • Splatfoot
    Splatfoot Posts: 593 Forumite
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    What  can they do if you don't comply?
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