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Help with cat in leasehold flat - Director with passive/aggressive behaviour
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I think Luisa has a number of points to note:
1. I suspect maybe people don’t like Johnny Foreigner breaking their laws (in the flat kingdom) and you mistook the politeness of the friendly person for sympathy.
2. You are assuming, no one else has an allergy etc and complained.
3. You are misreading the culture, most people will see your partner as a dramatic troublemaker. To give you a perspective, our child cannot take to school any peanut containing food to school due to other children’s allergies. Now we love peanuts and this is annoying due to having to change everything we cook. Imagine how the teachers will perceive a parent complaining how depressed they are without jumbo peanuts - people will say !!!!!!. Now imagine there was a person with an allergy next door, the directors can’t tell you due to GDPR, but will view you as selfish people making up a disease.
4. Have you had a look at who else lives in these apartments? You might find it’s better to sell up and move. We had this issue whilst living in Sweden, we lived in a very upmarket apartment complex and had constant problems, because we were foreign. Moved to a more mixed neighbourhood and things were better but Sweden isn’t a good place to live as a foreigner lol
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I think your number 3 is a bit unfair. There’s tons of medical evidence that dogs and cats are beneficial for mental health, none for peanuts!4
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homemover21 said:I have been in this situation before. I kept the cat as a cat is family. Nothing more was said. No one has a right to enter your property to assert that a cat is present, so keep it in a set of rooms that are not as exposed to the outside. That will be the end of the of the matter.1
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davidmcn said:I would have thought the likelihood of anybody bothering to go legal about an indoors cat to be pretty remote.
I bought a flat about 15 years ago with a similar clause in the lease. When i mentioned it to my solicitor as i then had 2 cats, I was told that nearly all leases will have such a clause but rarely will they be a problem. He suggested that such a lease was put in 'just in case' there was an issue and it allowed the potential to get rid of any problems ... and he gave me 'permission' to go ahead with it and not worry about it. So I did, and there was no problem - i even put a cat flap in ..
So my advice, sit tight and see what happens.
Good luck - and to those who suggest they'd just simply move rather than get rid of the cat .. I love my cats but in this instance, I'd rehome the cat before selling up ... it costs £1000s to move so you must be realistic!!
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wannabe_a_saver said:I think your number 3 is a bit unfair. There’s tons of medical evidence that dogs and cats are beneficial for mental health, none for peanuts!
Pets are from an ethical point of view, animals enslaved to please a selfish person who cannot make connections with normal humans due to the effort needed - could be laziness or some medical issues. People should be supporting animal sanctuaries and pay to protect the animals homes if they really are animal lovers0 -
Alan2020 said:wannabe_a_saver said:I think your number 3 is a bit unfair. There’s tons of medical evidence that dogs and cats are beneficial for mental health, none for peanuts!
Pets are from an ethical point of view, animals enslaved to please a selfish person who cannot make connections with normal humans due to the effort needed - could be laziness or some medical issues. People should be supporting animal sanctuaries and pay to protect the animals homes if they really are animal lovers20 -
Alan2020 said:wannabe_a_saver said:I think your number 3 is a bit unfair. There’s tons of medical evidence that dogs and cats are beneficial for mental health, none for peanuts!
Pets are from an ethical point of view, animals enslaved to please a selfish person who cannot make connections with normal humans due to the effort needed - could be laziness or some medical issues. People should be supporting animal sanctuaries and pay to protect the animals homes if they really are animal lovers
A quick web search returned medical evidence from what I believe is a credible source.2 -
Whether or not they're good for health is irrelevant to the enforceability of the covenant anyway.2
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Gunner276 said:Alan2020 said:wannabe_a_saver said:I think your number 3 is a bit unfair. There’s tons of medical evidence that dogs and cats are beneficial for mental health, none for peanuts!
Pets are from an ethical point of view, animals enslaved to please a selfish person who cannot make connections with normal humans due to the effort needed - could be laziness or some medical issues. People should be supporting animal sanctuaries and pay to protect the animals homes if they really are animal lovers2
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