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Dymphna60 said:Thanks @ JamoLew .I absolutely agree with you that the health impacts on people with conditions like cancer are devastating , both in a general way and in having an adult child who is still in the close monitoring group who’s follow ups are cancelled/delayed. Unfortunately has bad late side effects from his chemotherapy.Covid brings with it smack into our faces that not everyone that could be saved is saved , that this will never be possible .I am recently and thankfully retired from 40 years in healthcare.You aren’t really saying crack on as normal then though are you ? As you say a degree of social distancing, mask wearing a little bit of pain for everyone is not a big ask .Most people are reasonable even old folk like me . That people get vital care they need means that I am not round folks houses gossiping over tea and cake risking passing on / catching Covid and taking up resources that are needed elsewhere.So I will suck up my loneliness , put my love of train travel on hold .Could those that I see drunkenly hugging strangers for a selfie in the street not just retrain themselves a little too ?I will shut up now .
Any sensible/reasonable measures that are easily maintained and are only an inconvenience will no doubt remain (and should)
There's a very fine balance to be had and I'm not sure anyone actually knows where that balance is quite yet.
We will get there
I just wish the media would stop hyping and sensationalising everything and playing the political blame game.
No-ones to blame and I doubt any other politician/party would have done a better (maybe different) job - if they say otherwise, they are lying IMO
Sadly, this thread will get nuked which is a shame because it's been a very constructive discussion (probably belongs in Discussion Time - but that got removed)1 -
sweetgirl2015 said:Takmon said:sweetgirl2015 said:JamoLew said:well thats what the 1st national lockdown almost covered --
Whereas we been together for four years, yet had to stop seeing each other or move in together, the later being impossible.
Just so many things this year has been so not making sense like that which is why we will just have to live with it as someone rightly said.
When your boyfriend went to work he should be keeping a distance from others as much as possible, wearing masks or having barriers if they have to work close together, the workplace should have door/windows/extractor fans to ensure adequate ventilation etc. Which is all pretty reasonable.
But when you and your boyfriend are together you are likely to have no ventilation cuddled up close together with lots of physical contact which makes the virus very easy to spread between you.
So basically the rules are too allow the economy to keep going but also to prevent situations where people are in close contact with loved ones where it is far more likely to spread.
It was nothing short of a miracle that no one including my boyfriend caught the virus, because if one did they all would have, and took it home to loved ones etc. Not me because we chose to live apart in our own properties.
So you see what I mean its very often life vs industry.
But then the employees need to take some responsibility and not go into a full canteen and instead go outside or in their cars for example to eat at lunch.3 -
As someone with a hidden disability I really get annoyed at people abusing this. Was in IKEA the other day and a whole family wasn't wearing masks. One had a lanyard. Kept well away.1
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Takmon said:sweetgirl2015 said:Takmon said:sweetgirl2015 said:JamoLew said:well thats what the 1st national lockdown almost covered --
Whereas we been together for four years, yet had to stop seeing each other or move in together, the later being impossible.
Just so many things this year has been so not making sense like that which is why we will just have to live with it as someone rightly said.
When your boyfriend went to work he should be keeping a distance from others as much as possible, wearing masks or having barriers if they have to work close together, the workplace should have door/windows/extractor fans to ensure adequate ventilation etc. Which is all pretty reasonable.
But when you and your boyfriend are together you are likely to have no ventilation cuddled up close together with lots of physical contact which makes the virus very easy to spread between you.
So basically the rules are too allow the economy to keep going but also to prevent situations where people are in close contact with loved ones where it is far more likely to spread.
It was nothing short of a miracle that no one including my boyfriend caught the virus, because if one did they all would have, and took it home to loved ones etc. Not me because we chose to live apart in our own properties.
So you see what I mean its very often life vs industry.
But then the employees need to take some responsibility and not go into a full canteen and instead go outside or in their cars for example to eat at lunch.
But I get the impression there were lots of cases like that up and down the country. Like boyfriend said and all his colleagues said it didn't feel like a lockdown at all at the time. The only time it felt like it was lockdown was the mile long queues going into Asda Tescos etc. Other than that it was life as normal, oh but the most difficult part was us being apart. It even affected both our children as they missed each other as mine gets on with his very well as they are same ages.
I do truely believe if the government really wanted to crush this virus dead it could have been done. Just tell the nation to self isolate for 3 weeks, with the exception of nurses and emergency services, water board, electric etc, but normal citizens could and should have stayed at home but they didnt. Now everyone is sufferering.0 -
By the time you add up all the people needed to keep a country functioning it would have had no impact.3
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[DELETED USER] said:As someone with a hidden disability I really get annoyed at people abusing this. Was in IKEA the other day and a whole family wasn't wearing masks. One had a lanyard. Kept well away.0
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Aranyani said:[DELETED USER] said:As someone with a hidden disability I really get annoyed at people abusing this. Was in IKEA the other day and a whole family wasn't wearing masks. One had a lanyard. Kept well away.
They make transparent masks and face shields.1 -
[DELETED USER] said:Aranyani said:[DELETED USER] said:As someone with a hidden disability I really get annoyed at people abusing this. Was in IKEA the other day and a whole family wasn't wearing masks. One had a lanyard. Kept well away.
They make transparent masks and face shields.2 -
sweetgirl2015 said:JamoLew said:sweetgirl2015 said:I think this virus hasent gone away from the fact of sketchy rules which we have had to endure since March.
How can it be right I can't see my nearest and dearest which is of course my boyfriend of 4 years. Yet he can go to a factory and work with over 20 other colleagues, all sharing the same building and canteen.
At this rate its never going away because the government don't live in a real world.
They have to balance the economy and the welfare of the population (and the lack of respect for guidance and the law)
How would you suggest we get rid of it ?2 -
[DELETED USER] said:Aranyani said:[DELETED USER] said:As someone with a hidden disability I really get annoyed at people abusing this. Was in IKEA the other day and a whole family wasn't wearing masks. One had a lanyard. Kept well away.
They make transparent masks and face shields.2
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