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Husband and his money

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  • No don’t forget he is putting it into their bank account. He trusts banks at least 😂
  • ok. well obviously the bank has never queeried why he pays in large amounts of cash. but then I suppose they just doing their job. no reason to question it.
  • Spendless
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    Savvy_Sue said:
    Spendless said:
    Every so often a thread comes along that you just want to know the answer. This is the most fun one I've read in ages.
    Think most of my suggestions have already been posted but Ill throw in another one
    An inheritance has come through that he's not told you about?
    Out of curiousity how long have you been married? Have you experienced this behaviour of not explaining himself before?
    An inheritance wouldn't usually explain unexpectedly large amounts of cash: it would appear in the bank account. 

    My money's on drug dealing. If he worked at a school, it'd be almost certain. What sort of setting does he work at OP? School, golf club, landed estate, housing association ... 
    Yes, his bank account. He's been making deposits from his own account into their joint one.
    I'd like to think the thread is a wind up but I had an equally dopey friend who truly believed that the £100s/£1000s that her husband materiaised just before their annual holiday abroad came from one of the bosses where he worked as 'X always gave her husband spending money to go on holiday with' Yeah ok, unfortunately never worked out exactly what dodgy dealing he was upto. 
  • Spendless said:
    Savvy_Sue said:
    Spendless said:
    Every so often a thread comes along that you just want to know the answer. This is the most fun one I've read in ages.
    Think most of my suggestions have already been posted but Ill throw in another one
    An inheritance has come through that he's not told you about?
    Out of curiousity how long have you been married? Have you experienced this behaviour of not explaining himself before?
    An inheritance wouldn't usually explain unexpectedly large amounts of cash: it would appear in the bank account. 

    My money's on drug dealing. If he worked at a school, it'd be almost certain. What sort of setting does he work at OP? School, golf club, landed estate, housing association ... 
    Yes, his bank account. He's been making deposits from his own account into their joint one.
    I'd like to think the thread is a wind up but I had an equally dopey friend who truly believed that the £100s/£1000s that her husband materiaised just before their annual holiday abroad came from one of the bosses where he worked as 'X always gave her husband spending money to go on holiday with' Yeah ok, unfortunately never worked out exactly what dodgy dealing he was upto. 
    What does he do?
  • He’s told me he’s friend is paying him money who sold the businesses and went separate ate ways.

    He is paying my hubby protection money. To look after him and make sure no harm comes to him. 
  • I’ve been speaking to my hubby he wants the lifestyle that he deserves. He told me. He’s sick and tired of having nothing to show for grafting 12 hours a day. 
  • elsien
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    So he’s suddenly started discussing it after the last half hour or so then? Course he has. 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • I feel like I need to see evidence of all your luxurious items....... otherwise, I call bullsh*t.
  • Barny1979
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    Mitzj7374 said:
    Spendless said:
    Savvy_Sue said:
    Spendless said:
    Every so often a thread comes along that you just want to know the answer. This is the most fun one I've read in ages.
    Think most of my suggestions have already been posted but Ill throw in another one
    An inheritance has come through that he's not told you about?
    Out of curiousity how long have you been married? Have you experienced this behaviour of not explaining himself before?
    An inheritance wouldn't usually explain unexpectedly large amounts of cash: it would appear in the bank account. 

    My money's on drug dealing. If he worked at a school, it'd be almost certain. What sort of setting does he work at OP? School, golf club, landed estate, housing association ... 
    Yes, his bank account. He's been making deposits from his own account into their joint one.
    I'd like to think the thread is a wind up but I had an equally dopey friend who truly believed that the £100s/£1000s that her husband materiaised just before their annual holiday abroad came from one of the bosses where he worked as 'X always gave her husband spending money to go on holiday with' Yeah ok, unfortunately never worked out exactly what dodgy dealing he was upto. 
    What does he do?
    Sucks winky
  • Barny1979 said:
    Mitzj7374 said:
    Spendless said:
    Savvy_Sue said:
    Spendless said:
    Every so often a thread comes along that you just want to know the answer. This is the most fun one I've read in ages.
    Think most of my suggestions have already been posted but Ill throw in another one
    An inheritance has come through that he's not told you about?
    Out of curiousity how long have you been married? Have you experienced this behaviour of not explaining himself before?
    An inheritance wouldn't usually explain unexpectedly large amounts of cash: it would appear in the bank account. 

    My money's on drug dealing. If he worked at a school, it'd be almost certain. What sort of setting does he work at OP? School, golf club, landed estate, housing association ... 
    Yes, his bank account. He's been making deposits from his own account into their joint one.
    I'd like to think the thread is a wind up but I had an equally dopey friend who truly believed that the £100s/£1000s that her husband materiaised just before their annual holiday abroad came from one of the bosses where he worked as 'X always gave her husband spending money to go on holiday with' Yeah ok, unfortunately never worked out exactly what dodgy dealing he was upto. 
    What does he do?
    Sucks winky
    Howling 😂😂😂
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