Husband and his money

Mitzj7374

He does bang on allot about his friend who they both set up company with doesn’t deserve it, he should receive more because they was in it for 5 years together. 

SweetPotatoPie

Drug dealer - he doesn’t go out without you? He won’t need to if he’s earning big bucks - he will be getting his minions to do the actual “dealing”. Clearly it’s something illegal with the amount of “cash” that he has. Have you checked your loft? 

Mitzj7374

The thing is he friend who sold his company is the most non materialistic and nice person you will ever meet, apart from his Omega watch you wouldn’t know he’s a millionaire. 

tacpot12

Mitzj7374 said:

The thing is he friend who sold his company is the most non materialistic and nice person you will ever meet, apart from his Omega watch you wouldn’t know he’s a millionaire. 

Might you be able to check privately with his friend that everything is ok? If your husband is blackmailing him, the friend will find it enormously comforting if they can reveal this to someone, but you need to be careful that they then don't expect you to be able to stop your husband!

Mitzj7374

I don’t want to get involved. 

BAFE

Nah, I call Bulls**t!
You said he only deals in cash so how did you get a mortgage?

Mitzj7374

Only recently deals in cash 

RobM99

Mitzj7374 said:

Only recently deals in cash 

Large volumes of it? Who does that these days?

Barny1979

Obviously the school the OP attends has had a Covid outbreak and had to temporarily shut.

Spendless

Every so often a thread comes along that you just want to know the answer. This is the most fun one I've read in ages.
Think most of my suggestions have already been posted but Ill throw in another one
An inheritance has come through that he's not told you about?
Out of curiousity how long have you been married? Have you experienced this behaviour of not explaining himself before?