Can my ex demand this?

burlingtonfl6

Comms69 said:

CNH1979 said:

I started this thread and opened a can of worms it seems....just an update on what actually happened for anyone wanting to know.
I texted him explaining how the 4 estate agents I had over were in the property for 5 mins and did not want me to show them round. I was happy for him to arrange another estate agent and to even be present as well but we would NOT be going out . I received a reply asking whether I was happy for him to give the estate agent my number to arrange a viewing when it was suitable for me. I agreed of course and within a day the aforementioned estate agent had been, all-be-it for 5 mins (!) and had emailed us both with the estimate. 
My take on the situation and the advice I received from you all? There was no way I was going to let him into the property without me here, his right to come in yes but my right to stay. He knows he cant bully me anymore, I wont be taken advantage of anymore and I WILL fight my corner.
Thanks to the friendly comments, in one ear out the other with the rest

Sounds like he really just doesnt want to be around you.

Yep. Sometimes the best way to avoid trouble with an ex is by trying not to see them if you don't have to. If this was his preference, I can see his point.

Asonedoorcloses

  

Markneath

When getting divorced a few years back my ex wife managed to produce very low estate agents valuations for our house which she lived in. I wanted to get my own valuation done which she refused but she did eventually agree a much higher valuation than the estate agents ones. I can see why the husband wants to get his own opinion on valuations. 

Regards the house the wife will only generally keep it these days if she can afford to buy the husband out although she might get an extra 10% of the equity if the judge is old school.