Mum commenting on my house

Pollycat

sweetsand said:

The highlighted bit. Not at all as a "discussion" is not a one way process, it's a two way thin so kim does not know what her mum will feel, do and this could vary minute by minute and day by day. Like I said not everyone is the same and if we could all be cool, calm etc, there would not be the problems in the world we have now.
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Kim is the most likely person posting on here to know what her Mum will feel and do and whether it will vary minute by minute and day by day.

Again - it was simply a suggestion that Kim may or may not wish to consider.

sweetsand

Pollycat said:

sweetsand said:

The highlighted bit. Not at all as a "discussion" is not a one way process, it's a two way thin so kim does not know what her mum will feel, do and this could vary minute by minute and day by day. Like I said not everyone is the same and if we could all be cool, calm etc, there would not be the problems in the world we have now.
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Kim is the most likely person posting on here to know what her Mum will feel and do and whether it will vary minute by minute and day by day.

Again - it was simply a suggestion that Kim may or may not wish to consider.

Exactly what i have saying all along and hope you will now agree that when you asked why not every one could be "calm" you can see  who that is irrelevant.
As I said, everyone is different and if everyone could be "calm," etc then we'd have less problems.
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Pollycat

sweetsand said:

Exactly what i have saying all along and hope you will now agree that when you asked why not every one could be "calm" you can see  who that is irrelevant.
As I said, everyone is different and if everyone could be "calm," etc then we'd have less problems.
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Did I really ask why not everyone could be calm?

I really don't believe I did.

I would appreciate it very much if you would not attribute inaccurate statements to me.

Thank you.

swingaloo

sweetsand said:

Pollycat said:

sweetsand said:

The highlighted bit. Not at all as a "discussion" is not a one way process, it's a two way thin so kim does not know what her mum will feel, do and this could vary minute by minute and day by day. Like I said not everyone is the same and if we could all be cool, calm etc, there would not be the problems in the world we have now.
x

Kim is the most likely person posting on here to know what her Mum will feel and do and whether it will vary minute by minute and day by day.

Again - it was simply a suggestion that Kim may or may not wish to c 'Exactly what I have been saying all along and hope you will now agree that when you asked why not every one could be "calm" you can see  who that is irrelevant.

As I said, everyone is different and if everyone could be "calm," etc then we'd have less problems.
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You have just replied to Pollycats post by saying - 'Exactly what I have been saying all along'. Really? At 11.58 you posted 'Its a 2 way thing so Kim does NOT know what her mum will feel'.

pickledonionspaceraider

The Family board has become very toxic lately

Pollycat

pickledonionspaceraider said:

The Family board has become very toxic lately

Why do you think that is?

sweetsand

Pollycat said:

sweetsand said:

Exactly what i have saying all along and hope you will now agree that when you asked why not every one could be "calm" you can see  who that is irrelevant.
As I said, everyone is different and if everyone could be "calm," etc then we'd have less problems.
x

Did I really ask why not everyone could be calm?

I really don't believe I did.

I would appreciate it very much if you would not attribute inaccurate statements to me.

Thank you.

Perhaps it's time to remind you of what you posted as it looks as though you have forgotten.
"

Wouldn't it be better for all concerned for you to deal with it on a proactive basis and discuss it calm ly with your Mum instead of reacting and snapping?"
By everyone I meant the two subjects you was referring to but you knew that already.
I would appreciate it if you now withdrew your misread claims and check your previous posts before responding to me
Thank you

JGB1955

sweetsand said:

I would appreciate it if you now withdrew your misread claims and check your previous posts before responding to me
Thank you

Perhaps YOU could do the same? Your accusation of telling 'porkie pies' on the Motoring Forum (based on your total misread of an original post on this forum) is still awaiting an apology....

Pollycat

sweetsand said:

Perhaps it's time to remind you of what you posted as it looks as though you have forgotten.
"

Wouldn't it be better for all concerned for you to deal with it on a proactive basis and discuss it calm ly with your Mum instead of reacting and snapping?"
By everyone I meant the two subjects you was referring to but you knew that already.
I would appreciate it if you now withdrew your misread claims and check your previous posts before responding to me
Thank you

I think you need to familiarise yourself with the meaning of the word 'everybody'.

I did not mention the word 'everybody' in the post you quoted.

swingaloo

sweetsand said:

Pollycat said:

sweetsand said:

Exactly what i have saying all along and hope you will now agree that when you asked why not every one could be "calm" you can see  who that is irrelevant.
As I said, everyone is different and if everyone could be "calm," etc then we'd have less problems.
x

Did I really ask why not everyone could be calm?

I really don't believe I did.

I would appreciate it very much if you would not attribute inaccurate statements to me.

Thank you.

Perhaps it's time to remind you of what you posted as it looks as though you have forgotten.
I would appreciate it if you now withdrew your misread claims and check your previous posts before responding to me

Thank you

Oh, the irony of that remark!