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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,755 Forumite
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    Let's hope the visit from the police makes him realise that you are serious and are standing up for yourself.
    Well done on taking a massive step forward, Melly.
  • elsien
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    Well done melly; here's hoping any future hurdles start to feel less daunting as you rock the ones you're facing at the moment.
    Just wondering if there's an IDVA (domestic violence advocacy) service in your area you could tap into if you wanted to? 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • pollyanna_26
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    elsien said:
    Well done melly; here's hoping any future hurdles start to feel less daunting as you rock the ones you're facing at the moment.
    Just wondering if there's an IDVA (domestic violence advocacy) service in your area you could tap into if you wanted to? 

    Not today because you are resting but tomorrow look at the-waitingroom.org. Lots of contact details there for support services in your area Mel.
    Mind you after last nights performance he may be getting another knock on the door. Just keep passing the messages to the police while he digs himself into a deeper hole.
    Just rest today.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
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    It's been lovely and quiet 
    Yay
    I almost sorted his universal credit claim out and then I remembered that it's not my problem
  • pollyanna_26
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    I'm glad you had some peace. Hope you've had some proper sleep.
    Nothing to do with him is your problem now time to look after you now and get on with your life.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • Artytarty
    Artytarty Posts: 2,642 Forumite
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    You just keep getting better and better, its such a joy to see.
    Norn Iron Club member 473
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Thank you 
    I'm feeling a bit fat at the moment but that's the eating disorder talking 

  • Archergirl
    Archergirl Posts: 1,845 Forumite
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    Wow, you might be feeling a bit fat but you’re looking a bit gorgeous. Love the outfit I’m surprised people would recognise you, keep up the good work......xx
  • CRANKY40
    CRANKY40 Posts: 5,908 Forumite
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    Goodness, you look so much better in the photo from today!
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