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  • Archergirl
    Archergirl Posts: 1,845 Forumite
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    Hope it goes well, one step at a time.....You are a winner xx
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    They have just been focused on where I am living
    I Called today to go over yet again that I want to go in to a station and that I have no fixed address.
    Stupid as it sounds I don't want them to come here. 
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    Melly, if you don't want them to come to your friend's house, you are going to have to go to the police station - otherwise it's stalement.   Big girl's knickers on - its only another office and you have been in enough offices in your employment - you have had your own office!   It will just be a room xxx

  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    That's what I want to do but I'm stuck waiting for a call Thorsoak 
  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    Whether police staition or your friends house you need to do this Mel. Face to face.
    Just be open, honest on how things were and the ongoing texts etc.
    Remember HIS SHAME not yours.
    Once you've done today things wont be so difficult to face over the time to come.
    There isn't always provision at a station and often a home visit is done. Whoever visits will not reveal your wherabouts to anyone.
    You can do it Mel don't let him win.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Will be the station 
    Just waiting for a time
    Struggled to eat just 
  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    edited 18 August 2020 at 1:38PM
    Just deep breaths Mel. You'll feel better once you've been. Remember we're all thinking of you today.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    On way in 
    Big sigh from me
  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    Soon be over Mel. Good luck.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Hope so
    Hard
    Wrong station just waiting for them to get here 
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