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  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    I hope they've turned up now Mel. Be aware depending on their duties today they may be called to an ncident. Usually they turn up once that's sorted but sometimes they need to arrange another appt.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    You can eat when you've got through this - don't stress, love - once its done, it's over xxxx

  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    Well, there you go Melly.....Karma will catch up with him!  Now - enjoy a lovely dinner xxx


  • pollyanna_26
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    What about the texts and messages you've been getting?
    The guy who put on such a good act when he was never as ill as he claimed and sent you to tribunals for his benefits while he hid at home accuses you of defrauding DWP! He's got a damned cheek.
    I'm wondering if now his sister is involved she's trying to protect the families name. I hope you showed them the stuff about the pets.
    Would be interesting to see if he hides in the bedroom as per usual when they go to see him.
    Try to eat something love.
    Let your solicitor know tomorrow what's happenend and follow his advice.
    Sue's suggestion of a very cheap phone and swapping your sim is good. Let that collect any of the carp coming from him or those around him.
    Don't let him ruin things whatever happens you're never going back.
    pollyx.

    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Not criminal Pol 
    Not nice but not criminal 
    Friends are furious
    I just want him to go away
  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    Oh and I have lots of messages threatening to punch me in the face, kill me etc
    Did you show them those messages? They are threats and should be noted.
    Just get your feet up and contact the solicitor. tomorrow.
    pollyx

    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    I did
    I showed all.of them
    Had pizza
    Going to shower
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Crime number was texted last night so he's been spoken to. 
    He did say he was going to be blunt and make it clear that he had seen the evidence. 
  • thorsoak
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    I've seen a comment on F/B - which I won't copy word for word - but contains words like "karma"  "cactus" "back entrance" and "screw" .......;-)     You have taken control now, Melly - and well done" xxx

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