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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,779 Forumite
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    What did I say up-thread, Melly?
    Pollycat said:

    you seem to have lost that haunted, lost look that you had in earlier photos.




  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    It's mad the difference between the two 
  • Artytarty
    Artytarty Posts: 2,642 Forumite
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    Oh sweetheart, you're still the same person inside, actually much stronger than before.
    such a tough time you are having, but there is a future for you and a good one.

    Norn Iron Club member 473
  • Artytarty
    Artytarty Posts: 2,642 Forumite
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    Oh! I got it the wrong way round! Dumbo !
    well then, that goes to prove you've done the right thing!
    Norn Iron Club member 473
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Not dumb
    My mate suggested I do a comparison so I could see what he can
    And its flabbergasted me 
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    Just spot the difference!   Don't those two pictures tell the story.    You are beautiful, you are strong - and you are angry.   Keep feeling angry until you have finalised the divorce.   Last week, I might have said to you "do not give in" - this week neither I nor anyone else needs to suggest that to you now.    {{hugs}}   xx
  • I've got a photo of me when I was 4.5 stone heavier ...I keep it so that I know how far I've come.

    can I suggest you keep that photo to remind you how far you've come?

    also thought of you when I was listening to this tonight....
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000l7zc
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    I applied for legal aid to help pay the divorce fees 
    Will download and fill in the divorce forms later today 
  • ivyleaf
    ivyleaf Posts: 6,431 Forumite
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    edited 2 August 2020 at 9:37AM
    Melly that's wonderful to hear, and you look smashing x
    (Hope you don't mind my butting in, I've followed your thread for a long time and wish you all that's good in life from now on.)
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