Talk me down please 2

Pollycat

What did I say up-thread, Melly?

Pollycat said:

you seem to have lost that haunted, lost look that you had in earlier photos.

mellymoo74

It's mad the difference between the two 

Artytarty

Oh sweetheart, you're still the same person inside, actually much stronger than before.
such a tough time you are having, but there is a future for you and a good one.

Artytarty

Oh! I got it the wrong way round! Dumbo !
well then, that goes to prove you've done the right thing!

mellymoo74

Not dumb
My mate suggested I do a comparison so I could see what he can
And its flabbergasted me 

thorsoak

Just spot the difference!   Don't those two pictures tell the story.    You are beautiful, you are strong - and you are angry.   Keep feeling angry until you have finalised the divorce.   Last week, I might have said to you "do not give in" - this week neither I nor anyone else needs to suggest that to you now.    {{hugs}}   xx

gettingtheresometime

I've got a photo of me when I was 4.5 stone heavier ...I keep it so that I know how far I've come.

can I suggest you keep that photo to remind you how far you've come?

also thought of you when I was listening to this tonight....
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000l7zc

mellymoo74

I applied for legal aid to help pay the divorce fees 
Will download and fill in the divorce forms later today 

mellymoo74

Oh as a little aside guess whose appetite is fine..... 

ivyleaf

Melly that's wonderful to hear, and you look smashing x
(Hope you don't mind my butting in, I've followed your thread for a long time and wish you all that's good in life from now on.)