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  • thorsoak
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     Wit woo!   You look so good - well done, Melly - you are becoming YOU again.   You now know who your friends are - listen to them - they are right!     Just take the time to heal xxx
  • Archergirl
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    Not been getting updates for a long time, just came for a look, read back a long way.....I am thrilled at the move you have made and the progress you have achieved, well done you are looking fab, keep up the good work xxx
  • mellymoo74
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    Thanks all
    Another attempt to suck me back today
    The dogs have been put too sleep 
  • Archergirl
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    Well if he really has done that you will defo not be going back what an a hole either way. Stay strong, onwards and upwards, you must have the most people on here caring about you xx
  • mellymoo74
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    I'm told he has
    I am furious 
  • Pollycat said:
    WOW!
    You look really well, Melly.
    Can I second that?

  • Archergirl
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    I'm told he has
    I am furious 
    I didn't think you could have healthy animals put down, are you sure it's not another tactic? But do NOT go and find out....xx
  • mellymoo74
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    Fairly sure
    And no I won't be going or unblocking. 
    I'm changing my name by deed poll until I can get divorced 
    Xx
  • Archergirl
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    Have you sorted your finances so he cannot get you into debt anymore? Be aware I’m not sure but I think his debts are half yours till the divorce xx
  • MovingForwards
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    I'm told he has
    I am furious 
    I didn't think you could have healthy animals put down, are you sure it's not another tactic? But do NOT go and find out....xx

    Coming out of reading mode.

    You can, my ex did it to mine / his.

    Please stay strong, it does get easier. You won't ever forgive him for what he did and it strengthens resolve not to return.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
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