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Embracing the new family dynamics and looking forward to the future with optimism

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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    It's starting to be a long day as the boys are arguing, aggressively together and making such a noise despite my asking them to be quiet as they are giving me a headache.
    dgd has helped today and gone to the post office for me, and also bought milk which saved me dragging the boys out and enabled me to save money by not being tempted by yellow stickers etc
    Dgs2 has woken with a runny nose! Just before the return to school. Typical.
    Dgd and her friend sat in the house with Dgs1 ( Dgs2 was asleep), while I finished alterations to a school blazer that is needed by tomorrow. But that was long enough for her and once 2 was up I had to give up the idea of sneaking in any further sewing.
     I have two loads of washing on the line, two loads wet in the basket in the bathroom.
    the sky keeps threatening but so far it has remained dry.
     I want to be doing things but when Dgs1 is in destruction mode then it's all about fire fighting rather than anything else.
    Thankfully he has not been as bad as in previous weeks.
    still challenging but not as often or as long.
    Copious amounts of tea happening as I am restless to be doing and so keep heading for the kettle to do something.

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  • beanielou
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    Keep going Diva  :)
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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    beanielou said:
    Keep going Diva  :)
    With the school deadline in sight I will manage. But I am chomping at the bit to make changes everywhere and going round in circles because I am unable to get anything done.
    dgs2 has had a 2 hour sleep, and now it's only 5.20 and he grabbed his blanket and went off up to bed.
    said he was tired. I think it's probably because he has a cold. But it means that tonight is going to be a very disturbed night at best.
     I think I need to get Dgs1 hearing tested as he keeps turning up the TV and it is not doing anything for my headache.
    off to take paracetamol before I forget and it gets worse.
     
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • Hiya SS you are such a trooper, I admire you massively.  Have you looked into weighted blankets for the children ? A friends got one for her son who is on the spectrum and he is sleeping better and will take himself off with it to calm down during the day 
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