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Embracing the new family dynamics and looking forward to the future with optimism

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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    So I had fired off another email yesterday and threatened the MP or to sue them and funny I just had a phone call from the housing saying they will send a surveyor and a company to quote for the work.
    doesnt help me today but at least the Merry go round of the emails has stopped and someone is taking action.
    I wonder how long the wait will be. 
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • hb2
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    Well done Savvy! You shouldn't have had to make those threats but at least things are moving now.

    I love all animals, even rats, but not inside my home! My cat brought a huge one in the other week and my OH discovered, when he went to remove it, that it was not dead  :o I would prefer the cat to leave the live ones outside . . .

    It is pouring with rain down here in Poole today.
    It's not difficult!
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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    hb2 said:
    Well done Savvy! You shouldn't have had to make those threats but at least things are moving now.

    I love all animals, even rats, but not inside my home! My cat brought a huge one in the other week and my OH discovered, when he went to remove it, that it was not dead  :o I would prefer the cat to leave the live ones outside . . .

    It is pouring with rain down here in Poole today.
    It's raining here as well. 
    The rain is hindering the drain fella. It looks like there are more than one broken pipe. This could be costly for the housing association. Looks like when they installed my bathroom 10 years ago they left a drain going nowhere, and when they put the new concrete out side and swapped the cover etc they didn't join up the plastic to the old pipe. 
    Fun then as the path looks like it is going to have to come up. 
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • Savvy you can't carry on like this, you don't want things to come crashing down with someone being hurt or worse.
    It will come to that if things just carry on as they are.
    Do  you want to end up in hospital or worse one of the children end up in hospital?
    You have to say enough is enough and you just can't cope any more. It's not admitting defeat it's just showing you can't do everything on your own with no back up.
    If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    I doubt the next baby will be hers as she is gay. But I do understand.
    the early intervention team finally sent in someone to do an assessment this morning.
     Or the start of it. Of course once again they want a family tree and history!
    how many times do I have to repeat it?
    its the here and now I need support with and surely the history should be there for all professionals to access?
    DS finally turned up at 3.15
    he has decided to take the kids with him for tea and taken pjs so he will get them ready for bed.
    so me?
     I have just come up to bed and I am going to sleep! I hope.

    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
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