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  • MovingForwards
    MovingForwards Posts: 17,149 Forumite
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    Thanks RL. I just couldn't find anything good to outweigh all the negatives, nor would the pay have been more than I'm now on.

    Finally got a project finished at work, it's put me behind on everything else but I'm going to get stuck in. Shame it's a very busy week as a normal one would be easier to catch up. Going to start getting my appraisal form filled in, that way I can add more to it as I go along; will also use a lot from what I submitted for the pay increase. 

    Spent 45 minutes in to garden to de-stress and felt much better when I came back up.

    I barely slept last night, cat was poorly then messing around every 10 minutes. I dozed off for a few minutes this evening and feel more positive.

    Had pork chops and mash for tea, chocolate for pudding (must get my food sorted out when I'm more settled).

    £78 in the bank, £2 is bank fee, 17 days until payday.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • MovingForwards
    MovingForwards Posts: 17,149 Forumite
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    Two steps forward, ten steps back.
    Now I'm having people constantly going on about my stress levels, I'm doing to much, have more, take time off, there's no one to cover if I'm away and loads of other things that should have been raised and resolved months ago 🤨 
    - I just want to get on with doing what I'm being paid to do and grab the experience!

    Spent ages in the garden, weeding, looking at what's growing, where to plant things and eventually unwound. 

    Had meat stew and mash, chocolate for first and second pudding.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 9,962 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Love that you had first and second pudding.
    I hope the time in the garden balanced out the stress of your work situation
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 100/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
  • Skint_yet_Again
    Skint_yet_Again Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Hung up my suit! Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hope things have settled down at work & you can just get on with it now. Good that you can de stress in the garden 
    0% credit card £1360 & 0% Car Loan £7500 ~ paid in full JAN 2020 = NOW DEBT FREE 🤗
    House sale OCT 2022 = NOW MORTGAGE FREE 🤗
    House purchase completed FEB 2023 🥳🍾 Left work. 🤗

    Retired at 55 & now living off the equity £10k a year (until pensions start at 60 & 67).

    Previous Savings diary https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5597938/get-a-grip/p1

    Living off savings diary
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6429003/escape-to-the-country-living-off-savings/p1
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 9,962 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Enjoy the gardening weekend :)
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 100/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
  • MovingForwards
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    TomBo has made a start on sorting out the second leylandii stump, so far three sections of the patio has been lifted to try and access it and the silly big roots; it had damaged a couple of the slabs over the years and moulded around them. Hopefully it won't take him long to trim back and re-lay the patio.
    - the whole patio area currently looks like an unusable mess.

    I've weeded around the veg, did a bit of organising and also popped into No2 and sowed some flower seeds. 

    Have to pop to SIL's in a bit, I'm on furball duty again. Then I'm popping to T for a few bits, I've cashed in some vouchers towards a BBQ.

    Having coconut turkey curry and rice for tea and I may have a nap after as I'm exhausted.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Furball duty sounds fun! Have a good nap.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • MovingForwards
    MovingForwards Posts: 17,149 Forumite
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    It is fun, but all they do is eat! Got two bags of 'deposits', bedding and leftover nibbled food which works so well in our compost.

    I did pick up the BBQ, some charcoal, YS meat, veg, fruit juice and all the chocolate. 

    £43 in the bank, £2 is bank fee. 13 days til payday and day off 😃
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • Skint_yet_Again
    Skint_yet_Again Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Hung up my suit! Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited 16 May 2021 at 5:39AM
    Coconut turkey curry sounds yum 😋 I see you bought a bbq 🤗 just need some dry decent weather to use it now 😆

    You bought ALL the chocolate 😳 I thought I had 😆 
    0% credit card £1360 & 0% Car Loan £7500 ~ paid in full JAN 2020 = NOW DEBT FREE 🤗
    House sale OCT 2022 = NOW MORTGAGE FREE 🤗
    House purchase completed FEB 2023 🥳🍾 Left work. 🤗

    Retired at 55 & now living off the equity £10k a year (until pensions start at 60 & 67).

    Previous Savings diary https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5597938/get-a-grip/p1

    Living off savings diary
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6429003/escape-to-the-country-living-off-savings/p1
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