Buffy's 30 Month Plan

Buffythedebtslayer

hello,
Just popping in. meant to be at a hen do but been so ill (period related migraine) and just feel AWFUL. I am going to the second half in a minute and so want to go but also want to go to bed.

work has been rubbish. I miss the crush (he still messages a few times a week) and generally feel crappy. I am hoping tonight won't be too hard core and I can get home and to bed. I just want bed!

Buffythedebtslayer

Hello

hen night was good for the soul if not my head which is pounding all down one side. I have got in and fed the dogs. will go to bed in a bit.

need bed. got LOTS to do tomorrow XXX

crazy_cat_lady

Lots of love Buffy - hope that you're feeling a bit better this morning.

Buffythedebtslayer

I am feeling WAY better now, got up did shopping (£66!!!!) that should do for two weeks... famous last words....

Came home, had lunch, a nap, watched Ironman (my favourite of the Marvel films)

and now at 5 am going to start my washing and cleaning of the house.

XX

Pooky

5am? Have you morphed into another dimension?

db2016

just a quick thought, and NB, male pov here.


if hes popping up but nothing is gonna happen etc, then surely having him pop up a few times a week is just "reigniting" the pain / misery of missing him.

clean break all the way. i have done this with women and it honestly is the best... they'd pop up at events like xmas, birthdays or say they (thought) they'd seen me around (when i'd not been anywhere that day lol.

just to keep their "hand in". so they got a message, polite, but firm.. look this is pointless.. it's going nowhere so why message, and lets both put effort into something that may.

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

I miss the crush (he still messages a few times a week)

Buffythedebtslayer

Just a money update tonight, which is looking ok at the moment. No CC bill,

Christmas 500
penny a day 370
insurance 1050
house 150
Isa - 2221 (will be 2421 tomorrow)
random forgotten account 490

Just got to get through the month without using the CC
It was a good day at work today.
XXX

Sun_Addict

Oh to have a random forgotten account with money in it :rotfl:

Glad work was good today

beanielou

Buffy~~ I am also doing a month without spending on the CC.
We can cheer each other along xx

Buffythedebtslayer

Sun_Addict wrote: »

Oh to have a random forgotten account with money in it :rotfl:

Glad work was good today

I know! The most embarrassing thing is that I think I have another one....I have been paying into a sainsbury's savings account and I think that might have about 200 pounds in it.

So today. Not bad. Things have calmed down now the mini inspection is done.

Am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO tired tho.

I weighed myself last night, not something I have done for about 6 months. It was a SHOCK. I need to re think my attitude to food. hmmm

anyhow I need bed.

XXXX