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Does my ex need to know where I live when I have my daughter?
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If all he need to do is provide his address - considering no real factual evidence that this ex is a psycho?
He is using his address is a weapon. and then feigning victim
He's saying that while the child is in his care, he is the responsible parent and it's up to him where they are and where they go. He doesn't need permission or consent from the other parent for that.
It's all a big tit for tat, which is silly. But if it's due to concern about the other parent wanting more say over what happens when the child is with him, I can see why he'd want to draw a line at some point. Although I think he's picked the wrong way of doing it.
This is not a controlling act, this is the act of a mother who is worried about her child.
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That means that no parent is responsible as children get hurt all the time?
Like when she didn't say she introduced a new bloke to the child's life?
That said the child probably will in the near future anyway. Unless you are going to tell her not to tell mummy where you live.
Out of interest. She moves, wont tell you where and you have to pick them up and drop off outside Asda, that ok?
Although its also reasonable for a child to see both parents irrespective of their own differences
And as stated I admit this was a mistake on my behalf. Doesn’t make me irresponsible parent.
Similar to when I collect my daughter and there are grazes on her knee from where she has fallen over. I don’t expect to be to be told of an accident. These things are her age happen.