husbands left me

Jamangie

please help my husband left me yesterdayi am heartbroken im waiting to go to the doctors at ten to ten.

as if thats going to solve anything i dont know what to do ive got 4 kids sorry im just rambling

lipsthefish

Hi Jamange
I'm sure someone will be along soon with some good advice for you but in the mean time try and keep calm, you will get lots of great help and advice here. Take care
xx

tru

Oh Jamangie, I don't know what to say

Sounds like you're in shock at the moment. Please stick around (and keep checking back), there's some great people here who will have been through this and will help you.

Jamangie

thank you i just keep crying i want someone to make it better

hard_working_mum_3

Am very sorry. This happened to me and I was totally shellshocked. I would try and get on to the CAB or the like to establish your rights. Also the benfits agency and make sure that you are getting all the money you are entiteled to. I know this sounds mercenary but I felt totally out of control when it happened to me and getting the practical stuff sorted out helped me feel in control on one aspect even if I couldn't stop crying. How old are your kids? Do you have family around that can help you out while you sort out the practical stuff? I am not sure what the doctor can do but I understand your need to do something. Reading this back I am not much help. So sorry :grouphug:

Jamangie

thank you for replying my kids are between 8 and 18 my family live miles away.
we were supposed to be going to devon today i dont think i can carry on

seraphin_2

Hard working mums right, look into what you are entitled to,I too was left by my husband and once Id got over the shock being practical about things helped me gain control and self respect again.

Take care
sarah

BrokenBed

I'm new on this site, but just read this and had to write something. Take each day as it comes, and try and keep calm. Hope your kids are OK, they can be a great way to make you feel better. Sorry I'm a terrible rambler, I don't know what else to say. Things will get better though soon, you sound as though your a fighter.

suzysue_2

I'm so sorry Jamangie, I wish I could take the pain away, I've been in this postion as well and can remember the pain all too vividly.
hard_working _mum has given you some excellent advice, the CAB helped me enormously and without my friends I don't knw what I would of done.
Pick up your phone and get someone to be with you for a while.
Keep on here and ramble as much as you want, I'll be here on and off all day.
XXX

Jamangie

thank you everyone i am in shock i feel numb i dont know what to do
the pain is unbearable

suzysue_2

Oh sweetie, I know it is.
I feel a bit useless here, I wish I lived near by.
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