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  • WinterWarrior
    WinterWarrior Posts: 6,101 Forumite
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    amazing progress on the mortgage 🌟 
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  • Seasidegal58
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    Great news on the mortgage - it'll be gone with the wind before you know it!👍
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  • beanielou
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    Fantastic progress  :grin:
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  • enthusiasticsaver
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    That mortgage and additional borrowing is coming down nicely.  Hopefully you will be able to continue overpaying.  
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  • SusieT
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    Ooooh a how to stop Mr SA request, great (not serious) fun to be had here :D My first thoughts are:
    Let down tyres from the scooter
    Remove 2 wheels from the scooter and tell him a proper bird took them
    Mistakenly have the scooter key(s) in your bag when you leave


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  • I think an exercise class? As your escape plan, he wouldn't want to go to that? You wouldn't work on a Saturday would you?..... a sudden dentist appointment? But that might be awkward to keep up. It is hard, I am always tagging nice things on the end of mundane stuff - so go to the tip and then drive home the long way or go to a nursery/shops. Does he always come shopping with you? 

    The only problem with the exercise class is things you have bought..... I am normally so much better coming up with stories.... 

    I wish I could be as organised as you. Am sat here with a huge amount to do and am cuddling the dog! 



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  • milann
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    Would telling him you’re trying clothes on put him off or would he happily sit outside the waiting for you…..my Dh hates waiting outside fitting rooms…….a cinema trip with someone from work to watch any type of film he doesn’t like? 
    Would your ds visit him whilst you’re out to do some ‘men’s shed’ type of project together. 
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  • Seasidegal58
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    Tell him you have to go into work to cover a project - office folk do occasionally work Saturdays - I did.  Any purchases you can fob off with 'Oh I thought I'd do a little shopping on the way home...'. Of course the real annoyance here is that you have to make up these stories to begin with and can't have a few hours to yourself....😡
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  • WinterWarrior
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    Disconnect his battery and tell him it’s gone flat because of the incessant charging? Two birds with one stone there 😁
    Could someone MrSA sit for you? 
    Could the proper bird peck his tyres flat?
    Leave before he gets up?
    Thats it, I’m out of ideas now, sorry… 
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