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5 OS pleasures in your day today - part 3
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belated birthday greetings BOP sorry mariners didn't give you the present you wanted :-(
1) morning started with letter from sheriff's court 'Dear Sirs' (to me singular female lol) saying that they're going to send the divorce papers to (then used her male name oh good grief!) recorded delivery. so phoned xoh to warn her. up side was had a lovely chat with xoh - in many ways still my soul mate sigh
2) dundee was enveloped in fog but was well wrapped up so rather atmospheric for the inspiration of Frankenstein - jarvis rolled in fox poo bleuh - gave him a shower when we got home, lots of dog shampoo and tomato ketchup
3) then dd2, mum and I went to B&Q. She wanted to get some bulbs but garden centres outside our zone so B&Q it was. Bought some gorgeous potted up winter pots and a christmas tree and outside lights for the porch as well as bird feeding stuff and bulbs
4) then we went to dunelm and i bought some lovely fake poppies to decorate my porch for remembrance and a christmas wreath in case we go into tier 4 (lockdown) - decorating our porch has become a thing since covid
5) then tea at mums watching the results of a certain election. and now in bed with a cup of tea. night all xxxMrsSD declutter medals 2023 🏅🏅🏅⭐⭐ 2025
25 for 25: 127 / 625
declutter: 173 / 2025
frogs eaten: 613 -
Up at 5 am again..............sigh.........but it was worth it.
Cooked some sausages last night night that I wanted to use. Whilst I was in the kitchen just now making a tea saw the garden light was on and yes there was a fox. Scarpered as soon as it saw me. Quickly cut up 2 sausages and put them on the table, went back into the kitchen, turned the light off and stood waiting in the dark. I know they watch me, within 30 seconds it was back and it was Grace, my one eyed lady. I was hoping it would be her. She is so timid.
I watched in fascination as she jumped on the table, took one piece, jumped off, ate it, and then repeated the process. Couldn't work out why she didn't just stay on the table like other foxes. It soon became apparent when another smaller (younger ?) fox appeared. Grace was being discreet and smart. She immediately went into a submissive pose and started almost mewing as it stood over her. It jumped on the table, ate the last piece, jumped off and had a real go at her. She sensibly ran off, living to fight another day.
It's probably because I had just woken up but I wanted to cry. And I wasn't going to put anymore food out for the aggressor. But I did. No surprise there ..................
Have a lovely day
bala
XAKA : Bala La Boo & Bala Baloo
According to a lovely poster I am Bala the Brave who wrestled a Tiger. You know who you are.....
I HAVE A GOLD STAR and A MEDAL and a Title !13 -
Good Morning Lovelies,
Friday
1. Too Good To Go Odessey........rescued some beer from Green King pub, and some pastries and soup from the shop at the local college of food.
2. Soup and bread for lunch.
3. Cleared the last of the potatoes and veg from the veg garden. OH raked leaves and DS2 bagged them up.
4. OH made chilli for tea.
5. Made some bird feeders from odd cups and saucers. They look really cute, but only attracting squirrels! (Bala, any ideas?).
Yesterday
1. Enjoying the US Election saga......
2. Trip to the skate park. Very busy with kids enjoying a dry autumn day. Lovely views over the park and city.
3. Christmas pud made in a spherical mould........Tastes promising.
4. Takeaway Chinese to celebrate DS2 passing out. Champagne was popped.5. Chatting with DS2 over the remains of the takeaway, while I finished all the champagne in the half drunk glasses. The young ones preferred the rescued beer! (I shall miss DS2 when his leave is over).🙁
6. My copy of the Christmas Chronicals has arrived.
Have a lovely day 🙂In a world where you can be anything, be kind. (Caroline Flack)
We have more in common than that which divides us. (Jo Cox)14 -
For yesterday,
Unusually for me checking the news on and off during the day with the slow realisation that the manic pumpkin may finally be on his way out.
The sun shining and time spent with my girlie.
Enjoyed another episode of Between the Covers, talking all things bookish, perfect.
We all bundled up and went out for long walk, small dog sent up some pheasants and was delighted with herself.
Watched the Festival of Remembrance.14 -
Good morning House Elf
where do I begin ?
First, where are you placing the cups and saucers ? I use an old rickety garden table that was due for skipping but is perfect for all the wildlife. No precarious hanging on. It really suits the bigger heavier birds. My little birds (that seem to be hibernating now) prefer everything scattered on the ground.
I don't know if you are vegetarian/vegan but if not scraps of meat (ham, chicken etc is gobbled). I have been really surprised by this, not from the crows but from the wood pigeons and magpies. I put these food stuffs out for the foxes but the birds sometimes get there first. They also love Tiggy's kibble. I first discovered this when quite a few times in the summer I walked into the kitchen to find a crow or wood pigeon eating from her bowl. This is how Flo and I became known to each other.
I don't think I have mentioned this because I didn't think I would be believed. A few months ago I put out some raw chicken skins for the foxes. 2 crows got there first and were on the fence trying to work out how to create smaller bite size pieces. I came back 10 minutes later to find that they had put them back on the table !
The next time I put out chicken skins they were cooked. They were eaten by all the large birds. My poor foxes but it is the 'early bird'........ as they say.......
As we are nearing on winter I find that anything fatty and easy to eat goes quickly. When I cannot get any fat balls I lightly butter some bread and create again small bite size pieces for all the birds. Kelloggs crunchy nut (fruit and nut) has proved popular with all the animals. I used it in desperation one day. I now buy them Muesli. Much healthier although not as popular.
House Elf........
I BET YOU WISH YOU HAD NEVER ASKED !
tee-hee..........
X
P.S. I too have watched the election in fascination. And still the plot thickens............AKA : Bala La Boo & Bala Baloo
According to a lovely poster I am Bala the Brave who wrestled a Tiger. You know who you are.....
I HAVE A GOLD STAR and A MEDAL and a Title !12 -
Good morning all,
MrsSD the pattern is king cole 3461 and the needles are 4mm and 5mm. It's supposed to be an aran pattern but it knits ok in DK too. The cabled hat knits fine if you don't cable as well, just use plain stitches (I've done both).
Pleasures for yesterday...
A work day, so a walk in the sunshine with the person that I look after
Chat by message with my sister
Some more knitting done while looked after person watched TV for a bit
Dinner was prawn fried rice (made by me)
Watched some flicks of Net with the HT
Take care all of you
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Morning all
DD - hugs to you re the divorce. Must be so difficult.
Frith - hope you are OK.
Pleasures for yesterday
1. A lovely walk with OH. Across the fields but a walk we hadn't done before and the sun came out.
2. Smoked salmon and scrambled eggs for lunch
3. US election result
4. A takeaway curry for tea
5. Had a copy of my father's birth certificate through - trying to trace my ancestry. Good to have it but it's raised more questions than it answered!
Have a great day all.I wanna be in the room where it happens13 -
Inching Closer!
IBCC, Canwick Hill Lincoln.Skid!
Seems that every year, Steve Marks' brother inches closer and closer to where Simon Weston was! I cannot remember now whether it was after a 541t!, scran or what the ever! Steve Marks came to me and said his brother had been lain on Sir Galahad. 'Don't call me Skid!' I didn't!
GRDSMN Marks. Welsh Guards. June 198211 -
Sometimes I do not like the profanity filter!8
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