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home life with parents affecting my relationship

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  • cogito
    cogito Posts: 4,898 Forumite
    Move out. You're old enough. Find a house share with other girls of similar age which is an economical way of getting some independence.

    You need to grow up and you also need to give your relationship with BF more time.

    There's more to this tale than meets the eye and I would love to hear the parents' side of the story. I rather doubt that they are as awful as your teenage rant suggests.
  • Tor_Brexit
    Tor_Brexit Posts: 1,308 Forumite
    Is this Palna's sister ?
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    Tor_Brexit wrote: »
    Is this Palna's sister ?
    I think many young people just don't know when they're well off.
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

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  • Tor_Brexit
    Tor_Brexit Posts: 1,308 Forumite
    VfM4meplse wrote: »
    I think many young people just don't know when they're well off.
    And why they are often spectacular failures.
    Bringing up kids isnt easy, but letting them luxuriate in the nest is NOT healthy.
    Unfortunately my lad is still here at 23.
    He should be gone, but isnt working in a mortgage friendly way.
  • HiToAll
    HiToAll Posts: 1,297 Forumite
    man (or woman) up
  • Li0nhead
    Li0nhead Posts: 16,922 Forumite
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    Tor_Brexit wrote: »
    Unfortunately my lad is still here at 23.
    He should be gone, but isnt working in a mortgage friendly way.

    Show him this:

    http://www.moneysavingexpert.com/savings/help-to-buy-ISA

    Total no brainier with the govt topping up 25%!

    Even if he does not use it for a deposit it would be a good savings pot for him.
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  • Ms_Chocaholic
    Ms_Chocaholic Posts: 12,761 Forumite
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    cjdavies wrote: »
    The post says only been together for 2 months.


    Yeah but OP's other profile said she had a partner who she planned spending the rest of her life with.
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  • Miski
    Miski Posts: 4,156 Forumite
    edited 17 August 2016 at 8:24PM
    250 is a bargain (I assume all inclusive)
    Use the cheap rent to save up your money
    You've been with him 2 months. Not enough to throw it away.
    Of course you think he is your only guy/girl ever. More than likely you'll break up or marry then divorce

    Your long term goal is financial independence.

    Do speak to your parents about the restrictions but it is their house
  • Two months isn't a boyfriend, two months is a shàg.

    House share. Drink heavily and take drugs.

    Not heroin, to begin with- use a government recommended 'gateway' drug like weed. See how you get on with that. You can always progress onto the brown at a later date.

    Steal, lie and cheat. Have dirty sex with dirty men. Go on the pill but don't bother with condoms - you are actually likely to live longer if you contract hiv. That's true- I heard a gay chap say on radio 4.

    Start living, stop moaning, you wimp.

    Oh- and don't forget to let us know how you get on...
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