Heartbroken - end of long relationship

Angry_Bear

duchy wrote: »

Shepherds pie can be very good comfort food during a break up however.................... so possibly is more relevant !

I love shepherds pie, OH never did so I haven't had it in years .... that's tomorrow sorted then

mark5

What usually happens is the bloke will complain about lack of sex, the woman will dismiss it, this goes on for a while then he finally gives in to temptation else where.

Any woman who thinks her husband won't cheat when their sex life is more or less non existent is kidding herself.

Guest101

justme111 wrote: »

Guest , op did not ask "why this happened". She is not trying to stay with him and make it work either for you to argue she should ask. So your comments are about as relevant to this thread as a recipe for shepherds pie.

Blah blah blah

- don't agree with someone so will dismiss anything they say as nonsense.

It's a public forum, if you don't like other people's opinion start your own and moderate as appropriate.

justme111

mark5 wrote: »

What usually happens is the bloke will complain about lack of sex, the woman will dismiss it, this goes on for a while then he finally gives in to temptation else where.

Any woman who thinks her husband won't cheat when their sex life is more or less non existent is kidding herself.

Indeed that what often happens. Often /sometimes a woman "succumbs to temptation " first and cheats as lack of satisfying sexual life affects her as well (surprise surprise women enjoy sex as well )

duchy

If you want to tell yourself that it's OK to cheat because you are sulking that your life partner has lost interest rather than investigate why you on longer turn them on (not pulling your weight in the relationship or just not satisfying partner physically oare the top two reasons ) then go right ahead- but don't assume everyone thinks that way. You might just be boring them sexually !

Mojisola

mark5 wrote: »

What usually happens is the bloke will complain about lack of sex, the woman will dismiss it, this goes on for a while then he finally gives in to temptation else where.

justme111 wrote: »

Often /sometimes a woman "succumbs to temptation " first and cheats as lack of satisfying sexual life affects her as well (surprise surprise women enjoy sex as well )

Neither is acceptable. If there is a major problem with the physical stuff, sort it out. If the relationship can't be mended, separate and then find someone else to have sex with.

justme111

Obviously, mojisola
I was not talking about what was right and what was wrong. I just tried to get the message across that women are made from the same sort of stuff, suffer from no sex life as well and creating good sex life is not their exclusive responsibility.

Angry_Bear

Had a chat with ex-OH today, I think reality has set in a bit - he agreed to me buying him out and said he would start looking for somewhere else to live.
Sad, but also relieved .

duchy

It is sad but once it's over far better for both of you to start moving forward with your lives apart than to sit in limbo.