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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    *stops looking for boyfriend*
    *waits for aiden turner to arrive*
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Haha I didn't think about that. My sig is a geeky reference to the Princess Bride, not a comment on MU's love life!

    Be warned MU. I was in the situation where I wasn't looking for a relationship when I met DH.:rotfl:
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • System
    System Posts: 178,351 Community Admin
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    I'm not sure it works quite that instantly tea :rotfl:

    I shall take head of your warning code :eek: i'll settle for a relationship right now, so don't go buying any hats haha :p
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  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Too late. I have a hat, a dress and I've looked out my veil for you :rotfl:

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    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • jobbingmusician
    jobbingmusician Posts: 20,347 Forumite
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    OMG! I just turn my back for a day or so to bet on some horses, and what happens? I'm excited for MU as well!

    (Shall we all meet up at the Very Important Day? It could be one of WaS's outings for next year :D - we'll see code's hat and dress!)

    *in case any of the jinx gods are reading, we're just having fun...*
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  • System
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    codemonkey wrote: »
    Too late. I have a hat, a dress and I've looked out my veil for you :rotfl:

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    hehe we're not even officially bf/gf yet :p though i'm going to perhaps broach that tomorrow :eek: he dd say in conversation the other day "i would like you to be my girlfriend eventually", at that point we'd only met up once so understandable he might not want to rush into it. shall see what tomorrow holds!
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  • Pyxis
    Pyxis Posts: 46,077 Forumite
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    (sigh) he's been lost a very long time!
    (I just lurve spiders!)
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  • heartbreak_star
    heartbreak_star Posts: 8,286 Forumite
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    Just catching up, been AWOL for a couple of days due to a bug :(

    Good to hear the positivity here, and glad your date went well MU!

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  • Pyxis
    Pyxis Posts: 46,077 Forumite
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    Lostsoulforever, if you're lurking, I hope you are ok! :A
    (I just lurve spiders!)
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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
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    xXMessedUpXx wrote: »
    hehe we're not even officially bf/gf yet :p though i'm going to perhaps broach that tomorrow :eek: he dd say in conversation the other day "i would like you to be my girlfriend eventually", at that point we'd only met up once so understandable he might not want to rush into it. shall see what tomorrow holds!




    Ok, I'm going to be less gung-ho than the others.

    I'm going to say why not take your time? He has clearly implied intent and wish but also said.....EVENTUALLY. There is no distance pressure; you can date normally and build up a relationship over time and before jumping in with both feet entering the turmoil you have done fairly recently, why not just pace it and let it progress over a slightly more relaxed time period. Let your emotions and biochemistry play a longer game and draw out the beginning bit a little? :o

    Its not that I'm not thrilled for you, I am. Very much so. :). And what ever you do you have support :)
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