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Boyfriend disclosed he visited a prostitute in India one year before we got together

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  • marleyboy
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    What if the history included being abusive or neglectful of a vulnerable person or child?
    What if it didn't.

    The trouble with narrow minded thinking, is those suffering from it, are obsessed in the "But what if" World. Which is generally always a far cry from the real World. Its why no court in the land would condemn a person based on a "But what if" scenario. ;).
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  • robotrobo wrote: »
    i think it was your boyfriend that had the lack of control!.

    i also think you are a wined up.

    but i like your style

    good luck & suck em all in.

    Kicking over the milk bucket over I see.
  • I'm thinking this is a wind up thread also.
  • DaveTheMus
    DaveTheMus Posts: 2,669 Forumite
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    I don't own one single Apple product, I used that as a generic example of electrical equipment.

    But you don't think there are degrees of wrongdoing? Like I said, if you took a slave and forced him to sew clothes for you in your house - you think this is equal to buying these clothes from a shop at a distance? I would understand you putting it to the back of your mind in the latter instance (Not right, but the distance would make it so much more psychologically understandable), but if the person were in front of you and you sanctioned it, I would wonder how you could go through with it.

    You prefer others to do your dirty work for you I see....
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  • marleyboy
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    I'm thinking this is a wind up thread also.
    Likewise, I suspect this story is a lot of horse manure created for a little attention.
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  • I'm thinking this is a wind up thread also.

    It's obviously an emotive thread where people have different opinions. I thank people who have responded thoughtfully.
  • DaveTheMus wrote: »
    You prefer others to do your dirty work for you I see....

    Well, I prefer to buy goods from shops than own a slave to sew clothes for me. If I preferred to own a slave, I'd probably lack a lot of empathy.
  • Yeah more than likely.
  • DaveTheMus
    DaveTheMus Posts: 2,669 Forumite
    I'm thinking this is a wind up thread also.


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  • Yeah more than likely.

    No, sadly. I'll take some time off from this site as it's not helping me feel any better, I'm just getting angrier.
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