I've let myself go apparently!

FBaby

Good news, make sure you do work on your confidence though! I did think of this thread earlier when I said I was going to go work out, my DD asked why and my OH responded 'because she is a porky! I laughed. This is the same man who yesterday suddenly embraced me in a big hug out of the blue and said 'darling, I totally adore you'. Yes, he thinks he is funny when he calls me silly names!

Orate

FBaby wrote: »

Good news, make sure you do work on your confidence though! I did think of this thread earlier when I said I was going to go work out, my DD asked why and my OH responded 'because she is a porky! I laughed. This is the same man who yesterday suddenly embraced me in a big hug out of the blue and said 'darling, I totally adore you'. Yes, he thinks he is funny when he calls me silly names!

I need to relax a little and stop worrying. That's all it comes down to. I'm just not used to it from him, albeit a harmless joke, I took it badly

robotrobo

i told my wife after i married her that if she got fat & ugly that i would divorce her ! , well after 45 years im looking for a good solicitor.:(

Wilma33

robotrobo wrote: »

i told my wife after i married her that if she got fat & ugly that i would divorce her ! , well after 45 years im looking for a good solicitor.:(

How does your body compare to 45 years ago? And have you carried as many children as your wife?

robotrobo

Wilma33 wrote: »

How does your body compare to 45 years ago? And have you carried as many children as your wife?

its a lot harder makeing them, my body compares very well thanyou, my next wife will reap the benefit no doubt, things wont happen that fast with the divorce as i need to get her name off the bank accounts first.:(

Lily-Rose_3

:rotfl: Priceless!

clark24

Well I am the first to admit I have let myself go, I spend my days wearing pyjamas and scruffy dressing gowns, my hair is a mess and I never wear make-up. I look a total state but my husband still thinks I'm the sexiest thing on the planet, and also understands that after 2 kids and with having a life shortening disability I am all about being comfy.

hollydays

robotrobo wrote: »

i told my wife after i married her that if she got fat & ugly that i would divorce her ! , well after 45 years im looking for a good solicitor.:(

Now that's what I call ugly...

DUTR

Wilma33 wrote: »

How does your body compare to 45 years ago? And have you carried as many children as your wife?

hollydays wrote: »

Now that's what I call ugly...

Have you two not got any sense of humour?
:eek:

flossy_splodge

OP refers to him as her boyfriend, NOT her HUSBAND. Sorry but I think that makes a difference in the feeling secure after giving birth stakes.
Just a thought.
Interesting that those that have said take it as a joke have all referred to being married.
If hormones are still playing up as they probably are, knowing someone can easily walk out is not helpful. Knowing there are consequences if they did walk out helps with the security.
And these particular words are simply NOT FUNNY in any way shape or form, they stay with you and play on your mind.:(