Finding a compromise? Any tips?!

millysg1

notanewuser wrote: »

Nope. He couldn't give a !!!!.

So he is happy for you to cancel your going away plans on the Thursday/Friday, wants them to stay in your (full up) spare rooms and plans to be of no help around the house in preparing? He also isn't going to chase parents to say you need a definite answer ASAP on when they are coming?

millysg1

notanewuser wrote: »

"If they stay in a hotel I'm staying there with them."

Says it all, really.

So its perfectly fine for you to stay in hotels but not for his precious parents?

And on his DDs AND Wife's birthdays, he would prefer to be at a hotel with parents and brother!!!!!!

Tell him to have fun and then you can have an amazing time with DD and hers/your friends at her tea party then go out for the day just the two of you on sunday!

notanewuser

millysg1 wrote: »

So he is happy for you to cancel your going away plans on the Thursday/Friday, wants them to stay in your (full up) spare rooms and plans to be of no help around the house in preparing? He also isn't going to chase parents to say you need a definite answer ASAP on when they are coming?

Pretty much.

lulu_92

millysg1 wrote: »

Tell him to have fun and then you can have an amazing time with DD and hers/your friends at her tea party then go out for the day just the two of you on sunday!

This. :beer:

millysg1

Where did he say to put them? in the spare room, you give up your room, lounge? did he offer any suggestions on how best to house them?

notanewuser

lulu_92 wrote: »

This. :beer:

Am tempted to add that on the Monday he can find somewhere else to live.

notanewuser

millysg1 wrote: »

Where did he say to put them? in the spare room, you give up your room, lounge? did he offer any suggestions on how best to house them?

He was amazed that he'd have to consider anything like that. He should just click his fingers and all would magically be sorted.

balletshoes

notanewuser wrote: »

Am tempted to add that on the Monday he can find somewhere else to live.

If thats how you really feel, you need to step away from this thread, its not going to help.

justme111

I believe it was a mistake to raise the topic again. If you want someone to take responsibility.for organising something you do not keep nagging them . I am not sure why you so uptight about hum.staying in a hotel with parents for one night , sure it is an option.

notanewuser

justme111 wrote: »

I believe it was a mistake to raise the topic again. If you want someone to take responsibility.for organising something you do not keep nagging them . I am not sure why you so uptight about hum.staying in a hotel with parents for one night , sure it is an option.

One night? Where did you get that from? It's at least 3 nights, including his daughter's birthday.

And I had to "raise it again" because I need to know what I'm booking and when!!!