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  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,609 Forumite
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    OP, you are clearly not compatible with this woman.

    I'm all for working hard at a marriage, particularly when there are kids, but this just sounds like you are both making each other miserable.

    As you have no property nor kids, I would suggest going your separate ways so you can then both find someone who DOES make you happy!

    Life is too short...
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
  • conradmum
    conradmum Posts: 5,018 Forumite
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    I've only read the first and last pages of this thread, so I don't know if this already been said, but I would suggest you have marriage counselling. You both have different standards and habits and communicate badly. You need to find a way to compromise on the things that matter to you and you also need to learn how to talk without upsetting each other or causing an argument. If you or your partner aren't interested in counselling then I don't think there's much of a future for your marriage.
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