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The thing to do with a current ex when they behave badly towards you with a new girlfriend/boyfriend in tow is to remind yourself that if they're capable of doing it to you, they will be equally capable of doing it to the new partner, and that their turn too will probably come in just the same way. It may not help much at the time but it will serve to remind you that they may not have been as rose tinted as you are continually reminding yourself.0
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xXMessedUpXx wrote: »Seeing them with someone else is always hard. The first time i saw my ex with the woman he cheated on me with and left me for, i just completely broke down (possibly more due to the fact we were apparently on a break and he'd made me think we'd get back together, so seeing them confirmed it was over for good)
If current ex starts seeing anyone then i'm going to have to cut off contact as i can't handle it (we're still on speaking terms atm)
I'm hoping it gets better, it's still early days. I've felt utterly broken the last 3 weeks, so i sympathize completely.
Sorry to hear that you are going through a similar situation:( you can't describe the pain deep down in the pit of your stomach! I'm trying to keep busy and I'm damn lucky I have some fantastic friends I can rely on. Seeing him with this other woman has been a slight turning point for me as I know it's over for good. In a revengeful way I hope it doesn't last and he's left with nothing.
Try to keep busy and do things for you,I've given my credit card a bashing a few times lol retail therapy!!
Is there any remote chance you may get back with current ex?0
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