advice please

daphne_descends

nichere you haven't answered the question, why on earth shouldn't she have your address?

nichere

squashy
she has a contact address (my mum and dads) and my mobile number
i have never taken my son longer than what we agrred on ande have never done any thing otherwise.

shellsuit

Why don't you want her to know where you live?

nichere

Agree totally with Squashy. What harm is there in telling her your address?

You are the childs Father, you know where your child and Mother lives, so why can't she not know where you live?

Also, as child is coming up to school age, there are records which schools hold which ask for emergency contact information, what is your ex meant to put down under 'fathers details'? 'I don't know where he lives'

she previously put her brothers phone number or her mums work number even when i lived in the area that is what she is like.

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loftus

Has she ever posed any threat to you new family?
Isn't the easiest solution just to give her the address? Sounds like both of you are displaying a degree of paranoia here but you have the simplest solution to hand.

daphne_descends

Considering that you cannot answer a straightforward question in the 6 posts you've made on this thread I'm beginning to think I don't blame your ex wife, are you this difficult about everything?

squashy

nichere wrote: »

i have never taken my son longer than what we agrred on ande have never done any thing otherwise.

No-one is disputing that.

Believe me I could write a book on awkward ex-wives but I really think you have to stand back and look at how ridiculous this seems.

affordmylife

Absolutely agree. No one is disputing payments made or reasonable pick up and drop offs. I suspect your new wife is the one that doesnt want her to know where you live?

nichere

You are the childs Father, you know where your child and Mother lives, so why can't she not know where you live?

sheelsuit of course i know where my son and his mum lives i used to pick him up from there and take him to my mum and dads his nan and grandad and that is where i have to go now to see my son in her house with her mum.

that is not the issue here if she said i wont give you this information you can pick him up from such and such a place where i will meet you then fine as that is her perogative as long as he was fine and in no danger where he was living with her all i want is what is best for my son and denying him seeing his nan and grandad in my opinion is unfair to our son i have nevere denied my son anything that she wanted to do with our son even when i did not see him one xmas as long as he was having fun and enjoying himself that was ok unfortunatly in the past this hasnt been the case with my ex when i wanted to take him somewhere and she knew where we were going she still said no

nichere

fac73
i hope this never happens to you when your new baby arrives and someone stops you having quality time with your child for what ever reason!!!!!
i feel that she copuld be a threat to my new family YES i hope that has answered your sinasism here.
no i dont want to give her my new address as i can not trust her as she has lied and lied in the past just to dictate the terms of my rights towards our child when it suits her (as agreed in law when we got divorced)