advice please

Errata

Given that research shows that after a couple of years vast numbers of fathers lose all contact with their children after separation, the problem may well

Errata

Given that research shows that after a couple of years vast numbers of fathers lose all contact with their children after separation, the OP's problem may well solve itself.

findingmyownway

Errata, no one would wish that on the OP or his child. Not a very helpful comment!

nichere

excuse me erratta
what kind of comment is that????
if you want a reaction from me then i am afraid you have failed in this.

Yorkshire-Lady_3

Whatever has gone on in your relationship with your ex - You SHARE a son.
I think that you are coming over as rather arrogant, and if you have this demeanour with your ex, and refuse to tell her where you live, then I can only think that you're making life harder for everyone concerned, INCLUDING your son.

This is my opinion.

nichere

well your entitled to your opinion yorkshire lady.

kenshaz

TheWaltons wrote: »

OK

I waded in half way through and didn't read all the posts.

Yes your Wife should have your address, and she should be disgusted with herself she has kept her sibling from your son. OR, perhaps she feels he doesn't need confusing as it's not as if he's going to see much of his new Sister?

I wish to be polite and respectful ,but perhaps you should not post an opinion on such a serious matter without reading all the posts and get a complete picture,please do not be offended it is just a point of view.

kenshaz

Yorkshire-Lady wrote: »

Whatever has gone on in your relationship with your ex - You SHARE a son.
I think that you are coming over as rather arrogant, and if you have this demeanour with your ex, and refuse to tell her where you live, then I can only think that you're making life harder for everyone concerned, INCLUDING your son.

This is my opinion.

I don't think that he is being arrogant ,he knows the whole situation and why should he automatically accept your point.

kenshaz

Errata wrote: »

Given that research shows that after a couple of years vast numbers of fathers lose all contact with their children after separation, the OP's problem may well solve itself.

Research whose research ,perhaps generalizations are not appropriate in this instance.

kenshaz

Scarlett1 wrote: »

are you seriously thinking of snatching your son from his home ?

I do sympathise that you probably had a !!!!!! time with your ex, but when you say the above things any sympathy falls to the roadside

what exactly do you think your ex wife can take off your new wife ? it might be her house in name but as you are married to her its also your house, I think you are way too paranoid, you are divorced so she isnt entitled to anything of you and your new wife's, have you been listening to horror stories from somewhere else ?

btw your ex isnt a nobody to your wife, she is the mother of her step-son (your son), so a bit of respect wouldnt go amiss.

I dont know how anyone on this board is able to help you, you have now sought legal advice so thats the way forward

I feel that your response is harsh and insensitive,with the use of course language,I would rethink it and tone it down with more empathy and understanding.