please help 16 and pregnant

kerry13238

i called the council they told me they wont give them anywhere she has a home but her bf and bf dad have told her they are 4th on the list x

Mojisola

kerry13238 wrote: »

i called the council they told me they wont give them anywhere she has a home but her bf and bf dad have told her they are 4th on the list x

Has he told the council that they are all living in the one-bed flat now?

kerry13238

i dont know im talking to the dad tonight my daughter isnt there atm either so how can he claim for her?

bloolagoon

kerry13238 wrote: »

she was pregnant before the implant went in she just didnt know

They are supposed to implant on mid period and after 2 x negative tests, are you sure she even got the implant, did you go with her to removal?

Mojisola

kerry13238 wrote: »

i dont know im talking to the dad tonight my daughter isnt there atm either so how can he claim for her?

By lying?.......

sulkisu

kerry13238 wrote: »

i called the council they told me they wont give them anywhere she has a home but her bf and bf dad have told her they are 4th on the list x

Presumably 4th on the list for a two bed property, as that is their current need.

bloolagoon

blondebubbles wrote: »

When I got the implant I didn't get any tests done beforehand

They should have done a PT.

borkid

As someone has already said she needs to speak to someone from outside of the family. Does your local council have a benefits welfare officer? They might be prepared to go through what she is entitled to and would also know about the council's policy on council housing. That way she would get the correct information.

As others have said I do think she maybe being used to get a larger council house. As the school holidays are approaching ( I know you said she wants to leave) maybe she could spend a 'holiday' with her bf and his father. It's not just lack of privacy but she might find she doesn't like all the housework!

kerry13238

Went to see the dad of the bf last night the first thing he said was will you write a letter so I can claim the benefits for your daughter I said no as she can come home I will support her. Her dad spoke to a child physiologist and they said she needs to get living with the bf ASAP so she can see reality of what it will be like also trying to find out about one if those baby things that are like real babies.

The dad was on about grants ect seems very clued up on it all. I said to him about my daughter said that he is going to give her and the fb the cb and child tax credits and he looked shifty to say the least.

She has been at her dads for a few days and he has had enough now as my daughter has given him a list of lifts her and the bf want to social events and the bf wants my daughter to go to work with him wearing a pizza board and handing out leaflets.

I told my daughter what the bf said about college full time and work in the evening and she said she isn't aware of that.

The dad says they will get a bigger place as his son is still in full time education however he has been kicked out of college.


I said to my daughter I will pick her up sat morning to come pack her stuff or would she like a week to see how it goes she has jumped at the week option. The bf dad has told my daughter that her and her bf can get their own place when the baby is here but social services will be involved because of her age

Marshmallow82

I think the dr has made a good suggestion. Once she is living with these two men and no 3 bedroom home is materialising she will be begging to come home.