please help 16 and pregnant

nannytone_2

left wing views?
for saying that the majority of young single mothers are good parents and productive people?
i must be left wing too.
blimey ... to think i never knew .....

redmalc

Nannytone perhaps you are,i am glad i told you

Poppie68

redmalc wrote: »

Poppie you have your left wing views, i have mine,but i am sure they are not in college because most of them are hanging around the local shops or in the pub at lunchtime spending their hard earned benefits or child support money.

Oh i assure you i have a perfect balance of left and right wing views..only the uneducated and ignorant have one or the other. What i also have is compassion and empathy and believe people should have a chance to prove themselves. I would rather have a heart than believe that stereotyping is the new religion!

redmalc

Poppie i will let you have the last word on this one because you seem to have your snout in most things on this forum regarding benefits and single parents.

Poppie68

I am constantly amazed in the amount of people that seem to have the third eye....i'm in awe of these people that truly believe they know all about a person just by watching them at the local shops or hanging round a street...Put the third eye to better use and concentrate on your own lives and stop reading the Sun it rots brain cells!

Poppie68

redmalc wrote: »

Poppie i will let you have the last word on this one because you seem to have your snout in most things on this forum regarding benefits and single parents.

Hmmm it's a public forum for which we can all offer help and openly discuss all matters. Feel free to hang around and contribute opnions and advice, just try not to villanize everybody who wears a hoody.

BillJones

Poppie68 wrote: »

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MY judgemental and spiteful attitude!!!

Yes. As you wrote just above

The problem with people like you is presumtion is a lifestyle and ignorance is your 'mother tongue'.

So don't you dare come over offended when being called on it.

To say nothing of this doozy

Oh i assure you i have a perfect balance of left and right wing views..only the uneducated and ignorant have one or the other.

You seem very willing to dole out the insults, and awfully precious when someone dares to respond to them. Are you this vicious in real life?

nannytone_2

BillJones wrote: »

Yes. As you wrote just above



So don't you dare come over offended when being called on it.

To say nothing of this doozy



You seem very willing to dole out the insults, and awfully precious when someone dares to respond to them. Are you this vicious in real life?

and youre also very quick to dole out the insults.
ooh, someone has made spelling mistakes! must mean they dont value education and must be stupid!!!
what a ridiculous conclusion to draw

Poppie68

BillJones wrote: »

Yes. As you wrote just above



So don't you dare come over offended when being called on it.

To say nothing of this doozy



You seem very willing to dole out the insults, and awfully precious when someone dares to respond to them. Are you this vicious in real life?

Lol.....you certainly don't like being called out on your disgraceful insults do you? Oh and i'm certainly aware i'm insulting you while accusing you of the same but i'm just responding to a bully.
Look back over your 'doozys' and try to figure out why people respond to you the way they do.
You try to be clever by belittling people over spelling and grammer. You came onto this thread just to insult people and have not offered one slice of advice ...do you pat yourself on the back?
You could'nt even offer nannytone an apology...that say's alot about you.

Anyway i'm done responding to you... if you can't say anything nice or supportive to the OP and her predicament over her 16 year old child the best thing is to remain stum!

kerry13238

just a update. dd and boys dad went to the council with dad as agreed and the boys dad when my dad got there refused to let him in as he said it was private even though it had been agreed that one of us would go in with my dd so we had a understanding of what was being said and to make sure the truth was told.

boys dad says he is suing the council for telling me he isnt 4th on the list. dd is coming home for a week next week also she is coming away with me fri to visit a friend of mine that she really likes.

boys dad has told my dd i have to give him the child benefit or not claim it i believe i have 4 weeks to inform them and i dont believe my dd wont come home im hoping that she will change her mind after a week at home.


she has asked me if we can go baby shopping i have said if she is living at home i will get whats needed when we know how far she is but anything i buy stays at mine. she needs to decide where she is living before i get anything as i only need basics if she isnt living at home x