i think my fiancee is cheating do i call the wedding off?

emmaj30

The question is " why is your fianc! and this girl being so disrespectful towards you. Yes its ok for you both to have friends of the opposite sex but this girl seems to me that shes out to cause trouble. You should be the most important woman in his life and he should put your feelings first. Its only going to get worse if you get married.
You could say that it would be nice if she has a partner that you could go out as a foursome. See what his reaction to that is.
Or you could speak to her. Woman to woman.. Have her understand that though you are not threatened by this , YOU ARE HIS FIANCEE and that you are sick and tired of her acting like this towards you. Say how would she feel if was the other way around.
I think your man is loving the attention he is getting from this girl. You have to say how it will be in the future.


Another thing is how would he feel if you were like this with any of your male colleagues?? im sure he would be jealous but you respect yourself and your families life too much too put him through it


Good luck

DigForVictory

Start with The Conversation.
He can either reassure you, or not.
If he doesn't, dump the wedding.
If only so-so, postpone the wedding (have you insurance? Is it too late to take out a policy?)

It is not worth putting up with feeling a second class citizen for childcare.

It is not fun or easy being a single parent on beenfits, but it has to be less bad than in a darn nearly fake marriage, surely?

Meesha.P

my worst fear has come true. i phoned him at work today because i could'nt find the rent money and his manager told me today is his day off. i got my friend to drive me round to the girl i know hes cheating withs house and we waited for an hour and saw them coming out together. hes got nowhere to hide now and i'v packed my bags and going to stay at my parents. i'm just awaiting him to get home to lie to me about being at work and then i'm going to punch him square in the face then walk out. hes broke my heart and broken our home. i can never forgive him for this the !!!!!! head.

Netwizard

Sorry to hear that, but don't assault him!!

fivetide

I wouldn't hit him. It'll be worse if you don't as he can go on about what a crazy person you are.

Don't drag yourself down to that level, he's not worth a conviction and neither is she.

Sorry to hear the news but at least you didn't marry this snake.

Meesha.P

Netwizard wrote: »

Sorry to hear that, but don't assault him!!

i'm so angry right now hes ruined my life. i do every thing for him and this is how he repays me. hes thrown every thing away just to !!!! a cheap skank.

pelirocco

Netwizard wrote: »

Sorry to hear that, but don't assault him!!

Or only if he has no witnesses and you have an alibi;)

fivetide

Meesha.P wrote: »

i'm so angry right now hes ruined my life. i do every thing for him and this is how he repays me. hes thrown every thing away just to !!!! a cheap skank.

You have every right to be angry but don't get angry. With any luck his willy will drop off anyway

In the meantime, make yourself a guy (like on bonfire night) and beat the living hell of of that.

Meesha.P

fivetide wrote: »

I wouldn't hit him. It'll be worse if you don't as he can go on about what a crazy person you are.

Don't drag yourself down to that level, he's not worth a conviction and neither is she.

Sorry to hear the news but at least you didn't marry this snake.

i have nothing to lose now i'v lost it all so i mite as well get some revenge on him for hurting me like this. let him feel my pain.

Meesha.P

fivetide wrote: »

You have every right to be angry but don't get angry. With any luck his willy will drop off anyway

In the meantime, make yourself a guy (like on bonfire night) and beat the living hell of of that.

i will cut his !!!!!! off instead the !!!!!! deserves it. i'm not good enough for him now he could of just ended it and not let me find out like this and he bringed her to our home and all the time they were both just laughing at me by hiding there secret right in front of me.