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  • turtlemoose
    turtlemoose Posts: 1,693 Forumite
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    I'm sure you already think this, but don't forget to say it out loud to Mrs E that you think she's doing a great job being a mum. Sometimes being told what you're doing is appreciated is priceless, especially when you're overwhelmed in a sea of sleep deprivation and nappies.
  • Yep I second that, lots of praise for mummy skills needed.

    2 more days and you will be sat in your lovely new home, albeit surrounded by boxes to unpack, but with a whole fresh start ahead of you all.

    You are doing great though, well done
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
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    Excellent news. :)

    Don't know how you've managed to pack working 10 hour :eek: days, selling a house, buying another all with a child under 6 months, to be honest. Frankly, I dread to think what you'll be able to achieve over the next ten years. ;):D
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • Buy her a scented candle, some smellies and a home made vaoucher for a guaranteed two hours peace and quiet in her new bathroom. Put an expiry date of one week post move on it.
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 11st 12lb determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge. I’m not perfect but I’m good enough for now.
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
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    INOD: That is seriously cheesy. Do any women in real life actually like that kind of stuff? :rotfl:
    2018 totals:
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    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • The guarantee of two hours peace and quiet to soak in a bath, read a book, etc can sustain people through the toughest of times. Through in a mini bottle of wine and there could be a Juliet mark II on the way!
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 11st 12lb determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge. I’m not perfect but I’m good enough for now.
  • Petal88
    Petal88 Posts: 273 Forumite
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    Real life woman here - YES!
    Mortgage Oct '20: £615k
    Mortgage Feb '24: 590k
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  • Buy her a scented candle, some smellies and a home made vaoucher for a guaranteed two hours peace and quiet in her new bathroom. Put an expiry date of one week post move on it.

    That's a lovely idea. Maybe lavender smellies for the bath. When my two were small I found taking a quiet bath, with candles and beautiful music was an absolute joy.

    Good luck tomorrow Mr E. Another exciting chapter is about to start.

    Very best wishes Tilly x x
    2004 £387k 29 years - MF March 2033:eek:
    2011 £309k 10 years - MF March 2021.
    Achieved Goal: 28/08/15 :j
  • Dobbibill
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    What's 2 hours peace and quiet??? :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Ed - you and Mrs Ed seem very organised and stress-free. Here's hoping the move and unpacking of boxes goes just as smooth for you both.
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  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 14,079 Forumite
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    I think the idea was golden INOD. Just one problem - no bath! :rotfl:
    Through in a mini bottle of wine and there could be a Juliet mark II on the way!

    Note to self, *don't* provide mini bottle of wine, not ready for DD Mk II! :p

    We are buying for an older couple and they've replaced the bathroom with a natty shower room.

    A full replacement is one of our first jobs.

    Thinking:
    • White ceiling (is there another option?) Warm white LED downlighters, we have these in our current flat and love them
    • Travertine or similar floor to ceiling tiles, a vertical strip of opalescent mosaic tiles floor to ceiling at sink (think muted mother of pearl)
    • Cook and L3wis bath we liked (it has a 'boxy' shower surround that looks a bit like a shower cubicle in a bath, IYSWIM?
    • Sink and toilet
    • Hansgr0he shower and taps
    • Heated towel rail
    • A small amount of built in storage under sink/near window (see what a joiner can magic up)

    Sound ok?
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