Double Life

hanginginthere

Thanks bigaunty,

I imagine that a lot of what you say is correct, while I dont care anymore, or don't wonder why, its all neither here nor there, he betrayed me and it irrelevant how, why, where etc, I'm not looking answers any longer, but I agree, you are correct.

They, himself and the other woman, had an abusive relationship, whereby she would have hit him on a number of occasions, both sober and drunk. They met at work, so I am really unsure how long they were seeing each other before her addiction become obvious, she openly admitted to me that she did not know how she would manage without the money he was giving her.

When I said, everything that he didn't like in a woman, I mean he doesn't like smokers, she was a chain smoker, he didn't like women falling down drunk, and a host of other things I won't get in to eg personal appearance. But again, it's irrelevant now, I don't care what she looked like, or how wrong she was for him, he did it, and I know I will look back in time and realise that it was the best thing to ever happen to me

Again I suspect that you are right bigaunty, he knew my jobs required a certain level of intelligence, he would often comment on how professional etc I would come across on the telephone etc, he said he was in awe of me and at times felt left behind, whereas, and I am not being rude, the other woman was not very articulate at all, so he felt like the clever one of the relationship,

He said that he always felt with the age gap, I am a lot younger, that I was going to leave him at some stage. Which I think is pathetic. Again, I dont care.

I dont require answers, what he did was unjustifiable, and he knows that now. He's in a lot worse of a position now than I am, and I'm certain that I am the happier of us both.

Thanks bigaunty, your analysis is spot on!!! Very accurate.