The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

chocoholic_chick

Congratulations Skaps! I'm so pleased for you, I hope you have a smooth and stress free 9 months x

isla_red

Congratulations skaps! :T Amazing news. Hope you have a healthy 9 months x

skaps

Thanks all for your love and support. Means a lot to me. Xxx

staple28

Fabulous news skaps, congratulations

cwtw

Congratulations Skaps - that's great news :j :j :j
I really hope that this one sticks.

I'm due to test on Thursday and my body's gone mental. I feel quite sick in the afternoons but today I've stated getting cramps. I don't know what to do with myself!! I've only taken a few hours off on OTD as I think it will be better to be busy in work whatever the news. It all feels very daunting now - how can time move so slowly????

cwtw

Did my pregnancy test today and it was negative. Feeling very sad and sorry for myself as I was so optimistic. Will ring the clinic later for a review and hopefully to book in for the next frozen transfer. This journey is so hard core, I just have to find the strength to keep going.

TamVilla80

Hugs to you cwtw, hope you are doing as well as you can be xxx

pinkteapot

I'm so sorry, cwtw. I also had a good cycle and perfect embryo. It leaves you bereft when it doesn't work. Take some time, and you and OH take care of each other. x

chocoholic_chick

So sorry cwtw, it's hard when everything goes along as planned and it still doesn't work I'm still waiting for my review appointment to discuss what went wrong and what happens next, though I know they can't give me any answers other than "it's just one of those things"

pinkteapot

chocoholic_chick wrote: »

So sorry cwtw, it's hard when everything goes along as planned and it still doesn't work I'm still waiting for my review appointment to discuss what went wrong and what happens next, though I know they can't give me any answers other than "it's just one of those things"

That's what they said when I had my follow-up after my BFN cycle. It was just luck and they wouldn't change anything for my second cycle (which I decided not to have). I found that part the hardest - it's all so controlled and scientific until transfer, and then it's pure pot luck as to whether the embie implants or not. It's just horrendous and I have nothing but admiration for everyone who goes through multiple cycles.