I phoned up my boyfriend's ex-gf. She's a therapist and she told me a few things.

dragonette

........No, he's just good at manipulating you using guilt. I rarely state "leave him".....but seriously? Get a spine love, drop his things at the hospital n forget him. I know 15 year olds who handle relationships better!

paulineb_2

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

Another thing... will he have to pay for NHS treatment... he got appendicitis whilst here....?

Does that really matter? Its not your concern.

tea_lover

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

Another thing... will he have to pay for NHS treatment... he got appendicitis whilst here....?

And that's your problem because?

Toucan_Pecan

quidsy wrote: »

Pack up his stuff, take it to the hospital, hand it to the nurse on duty & leave. Simples.

All the other guff you have written is HIS reasons, what are YOURS apart from getting off on the drama.?

OK a few things:

- I feel guilty doing that, also I don't know if I will pack up every last piece of everything. Urrgh.
- He has some dodgy photos of me on his computer (I don't have the password to it). They are headless shots mind you, but he told me I gave them to him as a 'gift' and only recently agreed to delete them... I don't know if he will or if I should even care.

fabforty

Toucan_Pecan wrote: »

The problem is that he's American and his things = a suitcase and I don't know if they will discharge him before he's due to fly home or what. I'm avoiding visiting him because I'm so angry.

I don't get it. Why is that a problem? As someone else suggested, unless you love the drama, what happens to him is not your problem. I don't understand what you are so angry about, you do not need to be there.

Toucan_Pecan

paulineb wrote: »

Does that really matter? Its not your concern.

Well a while back he asked me to send a scan of his passport photo photo page in to the hospital. I emailed the wrong address and it bounced. Should I email it to them or is that somehow morally dubious?????? I don't know what the hell to do.

paulineb_2

You are staying with him because hes got some naked photos of you on his pc?

Im beginning to think this is the most bonkers thread Ive seen on here in a long time and that is saying something.

quidsy

OK, I've wasted enough time on this troll. amusing but really not engaging enough for my time further.

tea_lover

C'mon trolls, at least make it funny... this is just irritating.

Bazey

Toucan play at that game.