What a mess - happy anniversary, do i need a divorce??

fishybusiness

Blokes do all sorts of stupid things, mostly before we are settled in to a long term relationship.

If one of my mates told he he had been doing similar, I would wonder what was wrong, but not with his relationship, more what was wrong with him.

For me, that is the bottom line, there is something behind the behaviour, regardless of your relationship, that puts your other half in a position where he is prepared to damage what you have.

I am sure a lot of people will think I am a mug to even consider staying or working through this but I am determined to make a considered decision. At least then if I do walk away I will know its totally the right thing for me.

Not at all, relationships are worth working at, even if sometimes it seems a waste of time.

Best of luck to you both.