Family cut themselves out of my son's life

wiggywoo9

MothballsWallet wrote: »

I agree, Birdie, however, I'd be trying to talk to his Dad and making sure he's doing the right things with regards to the benefit system laws, and giving him a chance to sort any discrepancies out, not just shopping him straight away.

After all, we don't want wiglet to lose contact with his dad because wiggy's become a stuckach, now do we? It might make his dad stay away forever, or at least until wiglet turns 16.

Excuse me? When did I mention benefits? You don't know me, pal, move along!

mum2one

i would def say go down the court route for dad to get access, from someone who has been there (was dragged through by DDs dad) - he had/has never seen her, yet when she was 8 he remembered he had a daughter...

Long story, lot of stress, and he still hasn't seen her, he has basicially dropped her as soon as it all wentthrough

thou I am aware that they have mediation now before any court proceedings, you have to put you and little one first xx

pebbles88

wiggywoo9 wrote: »

Excuse me? When did I mention benefits? You don't know me, pal, move along!

Well said wiggy, x

Shelldean

wiggywoo9 wrote: »

Excuse me? When did I mention benefits? You don't know me, pal, move along!

Woohoo go wiggy, this one sentence alone shows much your confidence has grown. I don't believe you would've said boo to the proverbial goose back at the beginning would you?

Keep it up xxxx

LandyAndy

wiggywoo9 wrote: »

Excuse me? When did I mention benefits? You don't know me, pal, move along!

Hmm, I think you just lost a bit of my sympathy with that.


Never mind. Just tell me to 'move along' too.

harrys_nan

I'm sorry wiggy but it was birdie post 583 that mentioned benefits and I think mothballs has just picked it from that post. If he has not read the whole thread or didn't take it all in, it was an easy mistake to make.

thorsoak

LandyAndy wrote: »

Hmm, I think you just lost a bit of my sympathy with that.


Never mind. Just tell me to 'move along' too.

She doesn't need sympathy, LandyAndy - just some acknowledgement that she is growing a backbone instead of a wishbone!

She is becoming the person she needs to be! Way to go, Wiggywoo! xx

Birdie85

I do think you may have taken Mothball's post out of context Wiggy; for some reason they dragged up my post from 6 months ago which was a comment about Wiglet's Dad's dad and your worries about him abusing his benefits, nothing to do with your benefits!

Hope you're all doing well

Noz

Yeah, I think there is crossed wires here with these posts.

MothballsWallet

wiggywoo9 wrote: »

Excuse me? When did I mention benefits? You don't know me, pal, move along!

Wiggy, I want to apologies - you're right, my post was out of line.

Birdie85 wrote: »

I do think you may have taken Mothball's post out of context Wiggy; for some reason they dragged up my post from 6 months ago which was a comment about Wiglet's Dad's dad and your worries about him abusing his benefits, nothing to do with your benefits!

Hope you're all doing well

Birdie's explained it here - I was catching up on your thread, saw their post to you, and commented 6+ months later, and commented in all the wrong ways.

If you want me to delete the post, just say, and I'll remove it.