Is he being kind or deceitful?

dandelionclock30

Emoticon wrote: »

He says that she is so busy telling him all her problems that she never asks him about how he is nor seem to take any interest in his life at all.
He tells me how wonderful he thinks I am and how much he values my support and affection.....but words are easy arent they?

I thought he was unusual in his support and financing her after all these years........Its very revealing that no-one on here has yet opined that he might just be a genuine kind guy......

Hmmmmm

Lots of married people say this. I bet you a pound OP hes married. Does he have a white band round his ring finger?

Emoticon

bagpussbear wrote: »

OP have you ever seen him on a weekday?

Yes I have seen him on a weekday. I know whre he works. IF I had been a snooper I could have Alice's telephone number, his bank details...pretty much everything....he has never hidden anything...
If he loves her more, then fine....I'll get over it.

He is a normal guy not wealthy....same as me.
I have his landline and he speends most eveings and weekend on syke with me....more so that a partnered man could maintain....

Its just so puzzling.

I am minded to show him this thread, even if only to make him understand the reservations that I have.
As it is, he is off feeling sorry for himself and his inadequacies.....

Emoticon

paulineb wrote: »

How did you meet this man by the way?

We met through a "special interest" website.

poet123

Yes, show him, then he will see that you are not being unreasonable needing to know full details.

Emoticon

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

Lots of married people say this. I bet you a pound OP hes married. Does he have a white band round his ring finger?

NO not at all....in fact....well its dificult to go into too much detail on here but we share a sexual kink which means his faithfulness is NOT UNDER ANY DOUBT!!

poet123

Emoticon wrote: »

NO not at all....in fact....well its dificult to go into too much detail on here but we share a sexual kink which means his faithfulness is NOT UNDER ANY DOUBT!!

Could it be dangerous? Could Alice have been damaged by it?

paulineb_2

Emoticon wrote: »

NO not at all....in fact....well its dificult to go into too much detail on here but we share a sexual kink which means his faithfulness is NOT UNDER ANY DOUBT!!

Id have to disagree about that. Hes had exes as youve said already.

And there are plenty of people who like kinky sex who can find like minded people if they really want to.

paulineb_2

poet123 wrote: »

Could it be dangerous? Could Alice have been damaged by it?

!!!!

The mind boggles.

Emoticon

poet123 wrote: »

Could it be dangerous? Could Alice have been damaged by it?

Bless you, No, she wouldnt have been damaged by it. He is sub and I am Domme. He is locked in chastity to me. But I dont think this really has any relevance to the issue.

poet123

Emoticon wrote: »

Bless you, No, she wouldnt have been damaged by it. He is sub and I am Domme. He is locked in chastity to me. But I dont think this really has any relevance to the issue.

Could she still be exerting her dominance over him?