Is he being kind or deceitful?

paulineb_2

Tbh, when the OP said in the first post that they enjoyed their enthusiastic love life, I did think, thats a bit too much TMI.

Ive no idea whether this thread is a troll post or not, but lots of posters start threads on here with new usernames, it does happen

And really as others have said, if you have to ask the question, taking aside the BDSM aspect, the guy is behaving like a prize plonker, unless he winds his neck in, who would want to be with someone like that?

Id rather be celibate which is just as well really.

Errata

ap1986 wrote: »

I think that, if we're all honest, we're all treating it as bit of a joke but want to offer advice so as to seem sincere.... And to encourage the OP to divulge more information

I think I've already had TMI, thank you very much :rotfl:

System

Errata wrote: »

I think I've already had TMI, thank you very much :rotfl:

I haven't. Ive got all night

*max*

Toto wrote: »

Who knew when I woke up this morning I'd spend my lunch hour googling images of male chastity belts and wondering how they a) stay on b) wee and c) not rattle like the ghost of Jacob marley whilst wandering round Sainsbury's.

Me, it's this comment that had me do a very unladylike snort at work!

Tropez

Coming on MSE to discuss this doesn't quite seem legit to me, I'm sorry.

I don't know. I've been thinking for a while of treating my fiance to a sybian saddle and thanks to this thread I might ask later about finding the best price per orgasm on one. That's rather MSE, don't you think?

Also, let's be honest here, those chastity cages can be pretty pricey. Most of the cheap ones aren't fit for purpose so the OP has probably spent quite a bit of money. It actually is kinda reasonable of her to wonder whether her relationship is worth saving given the time and financial investment she has likely already made. As this place is both for moneysaving and relationship discussions it doesn't seem that big a stretch that someone might post here. Let's remember, the OP wasn't about BDSM originally.

ap1986

Tropez wrote: »

I don't know. I've been thinking for a while of treating my fiance to a sybian saddle and thanks to this thread I might ask later about finding the best price per orgasm on one. That's rather MSE, don't you think?

:money:Martin would be very proud!

System

Tropez wrote: »

I don't know. I've been thinking for a while of treating my fiance to a sybian saddle

Are you not afraid she would prefer it to the real thing?

paulineb_2

Tropez wrote: »

I don't know. I've been thinking for a while of treating my fiance to a sybian saddle and thanks to this thread I might ask later about finding the best price per orgasm on one. That's rather MSE, don't you think?

Also, let's be honest here, those chastity cages can be pretty pricey. Most of the cheap ones aren't fit for purpose so the OP has probably spent quite a bit of money. It actually is kinda reasonable of her to wonder whether her relationship is worth saving given the time and financial investment she has likely already made. As this place is both for moneysaving and relationship discussions it doesn't seem that big a stretch that someone might post here. Let's remember, the OP wasn't about BDSM originally.

She didnt really say anything about investment, I think if the story is real that she loves him.

But he sounds a tad messed up to say the least.

carefullycautious

Maybe Alice is really Alan, built like a brick ####house and has put the fear of god into our nice kind caring sub. Now that would be a good sequel to fifty shades.

How on earth would you introduce someone you had met on one of these sites to your family without ever slipping up.

I'm exhausted just thinking about the implications of all this.

To the op I would just say that if you are not comfortable with what is going on then you have done the right thing, how do you know this man is not grooming you for far worse things to come. You need to keep safe whether you are 50 or 15

Errata

*max* wrote: »

Me, it's this comment that had me do a very unladylike snort at work!

This comment has had me waiting for the white vinegar and bicarb to make an appearance. No luck so far, but there's time yet. :whistle:

those who have had fun with Google this afternoon might like to look up 'pegging'...