Is he being kind or deceitful?

yvonne13_2

Emoticon wrote: »

Its possible of course but we do explore all sorts of things openly and I am not easily shocked or offended;)

Watch out for my book "Five hundred fetishes of Emoticon" lol

So is your post real then or just a sneaky peak inside the book you're promoting?

poet123

yvonne13 wrote: »

So is your post real then or just a sneaky peak inside the book you're promoting?

I think that was a joke!!;)

Person_one

poet123 wrote: »

I think that was a joke!!;)

I think the whole thread is here for a laugh.

I'm pretty sure real BDSM enthusiasts don't think of MSE as the first place to come to with their relationship issues!

In my experience they're usually pretty upfront and frank too, they don't act coy and secretive and play the game of dropping unsubtle hints until they 'reluctantly' reveal the big secret.

Emoticon

lostinrates wrote: »

Poet has it.... here is one example.

OK lets take a scenario......Young lady meets gentleman (my sub for example) They get down to business.....what is he going to say about wearing a cage he cant escape from. "Oh dont worry luv......we'll just snog...you dont mind that I have a partner that controls my orgasms do ya?" "I'm pretty skilled with other parts of my body....because I know you dont care that I have committed my crown jewels to someone else" "Its you I really fancy"

I dont know many women who would accept that situation.

Of course my sub might be a treasure to me....but I dont think many other women would accept that. Well unless they were sub too;)

And thats a whole other situation!

But maybe yes, I might be thinking this way because I am inexperienced?? Who knows:)

poet123

Emoticon wrote: »

OK lets take a scenario......Young lady meets gentleman (my sub for example) They get down to business.....what is he going to say about wearing a cage he cant escape from. "Oh dont worry luv......we'll just snog...you dont mind that I have a partner that controls my orgasms do ya?" "I'm pretty skilled with other parts of my body....because I know you dont care that I have committed my crown jewels to someone else" "Its you I really fancy"

I dont know many women who would accept that situation.

Of course my sub might be a treasure to me....but I dont think many other women would accept that. Well unless they were sub too;)

And thats a whole other situation!

But maybe yes, I might be thinking this way because I am inexperienced?? Who knows:)

What about the scenario where he says I have an illness which precludes certain things but doesn't mean I cannot satisfy you in other ways, there are loads of ways he could get around it if he tried.

Some women seem to put up with/believe quite a lot from things that get posted on here.....

yvonne13_2

OP you seem to be more focused about your lifestyle then your original question....

Emoticon

Person_one wrote: »

I think the whole thread is here for a laugh.

I'm pretty sure real BDSM enthusiasts don't think of MSE as the first place to come to with their relationship issues!

In my experience they're usually pretty upfront and frank too, they don't act coy and secretive and play the game of dropping unsubtle hints until they 'reluctantly' reveal the big secret.

You are wrong. The OP was about relationships NOT Bdsm, if youd bothered to read it all you would see the rest has been added only for context and subsequently try to inform, dispell myths.

But who cares what you believe ...if you arent interested you can silently move along.

Emoticon

poet123 wrote: »

What about the scenario where he says I have an illness which precludes certain things but doesn't mean I cannot satisfy you in other ways, there are loads of ways he could get around it if he tried.

Some women seem to put up with/believe quite a lot from things that get posted on here.....

I have an illness that means I have to wear a chastity device? lol.....she would have to be well naive:T

*max*

Person_one wrote: »

I think the whole thread is here for a laugh.

I'm pretty sure real BDSM enthusiasts don't think of MSE as the first place to come to with their relationship issues!

In my experience they're usually pretty upfront and frank too, they don't act coy and secretive and play the game of dropping unsubtle hints until they 'reluctantly' reveal the big secret.

Emoticon wrote: »

You are wrong. The OP was about relationships NOT Bdsm, if youd bothered to read it all you would see the rest has been added only for context and subsequently try to inform, dispell myths.

But who cares what you believe ...if you arent interested you can silently move along.

That's you told Person_one!

Emoticon

yvonne13 wrote: »

OP you seem to be more focused about your lifestyle then your original question....

I respect you opinion, but that isnt the case.
The BDSM has however resulted in assertions that I felt I should respond to. If I stand back from the thread now then ppl will assume I am a troll.

I was thinking about stepping back for a few days, see what transpires with my sub and the Alice situation and then update the thread.

I do feel I owe the more considered posters some sort of update.