Is he being kind or deceitful?

paulineb_2

Judi wrote: »

Surely we all have our 'things' though don't we?

Well, given that sex is a dim and distant memory for me, Id have to pass on that one.

But yes, Im sure everyone has their quirks, unless they are celibate (like I currently am).

System

poet123 wrote: »

Really....I would get the Vodka out tonight and see what transpires, you are a long time dead. Go for it.:D

Believe me, he'd need the vodka more than me.:(

System

paulineb wrote: »

But yes, Im sure everyone has their quirks, unless they are celibate (like I currently am).

Through choice or circumstance?

paulineb_2

Judi wrote: »

Through choice or circumstance?

Bit of both, the talent isnt exactly in abundance in these neck of the woods

stir_crazy

Judi wrote: »

Believe me, he'd need the vodka more than me.:(

Intriguing!

lostinrates

FBaby wrote: »

Going back on the issue of cheating...it's not just a one direction thing...you can cheat by pleasuring rather than being pleasured...surely his other body instruments are not locked too?

A point I made much earlier, and avoided further detail, but also, depending on fetish.....well.....no actually.....I'm just not going to say anymore.

lostinrates

poet123 wrote: »

Really....I would get the Vodka out tonight and see what transpires, you are a long time dead. Go for it.:D

I definitely agree with poet on this.....in a baby step approach if need be. and be prepared to find out his too. Fair IS fair after all!

lostinrates

paulineb wrote: »

Well, given that sex is a dim and distant memory for me, Id have to pass on that one.

But yes, Im sure everyone has their quirks, unless they are celibate (like I currently am).

Indeed, for some celibacy IS their quirk! .

IMO if its by consent, (and by that i mean over age and human) with implications understood (and protected against) then its noone else's business what is right and wrong. Its fair enough to seem rules of public decency applicable to all sexualities, but otherwise....

busiscoming2

Judi wrote: »

Surely we all have our 'things' though don't we?

Yep! but most of us aren't brave enough to let it out...

Emoticon

lostinrates wrote: »

Comments above. It also tickles you seem to assume you are the only kinkster on such a well populated forum! I know of at least one other who was (somewhat discretely) open about his kink here. Never mind those who aren't open about it!

Having been practising BDSM for over 30 years I do think I have had a chance to discover the full range of Pro Domme services...one only has to go onto a few of their websites to find out all the kinks they cater for. I didnt say I indulged in them all, just that I know about them (what they are).

I also didnt say anything about assuming I am the only kinkster on here. Its irrelevant when I was merely explaining aspects of my situation to the posters/readers that arent kinksters.

This was a thread about relationship advice not about who is the greatest Domme in the land!