Is he being kind or deceitful?

tea_lover

I can never even find the keys for the garage, I think this would just be asking for trouble.

Tropez

Emoticon wrote: »

Dont forget Chaps, the heightened enjoyment of being unlocked for "special occassions" after a few hours/days/weeks/months
:beer:

Personally - I'm going to die one day, and before that, there's apparently a 40% chance I'll need pills at some point to even get it up so I'd rather just take every chance I have now than waste it

Molly41

Judi wrote: »

I wouldn't mind learning a bit about this to be honest, ive got a man I wouldn't mind knocking into shape

He wouldn't know what has hit him! Its a whole new world to me - I am so naive !!!!

Tropez

tea_lover wrote: »

I can never even find the keys for the garage, I think this would just be asking for trouble.

Ah, well, the BDSM community has foreseen this problem and have special safes that you can store the keys in. Some even come with a see-through dome so that you can torment your sub by letting him see them but not getting a chance to use them.

And they can even be activated remotely over the Internet.

I think I might quit my job and start selling this stuff to people.

lostinrates

Emoticon wrote: »

No I'm not, are you?
Or are you just incredibly unimaginative behind closed doors?
:T

I find it really difficult when people damn other people's sexual choices. I find it very distasteful whichever way the damning goes. Just as heterosexual sex is fun if you are heterosexual but not if you are not , being a bottom isn't fun unless you want to be, being 'vanilla' (a term I detest) is absolutely fun for those who like it that way. When people campaign for understanding and respect of minority sexual practise ridiculing other people's choices is neither helpful nor particularly respectful. You are asking people. To take yours with respect, so perhaps don't ridicule theirs. (Unless of course they want you to!)

tea_lover

Tropez wrote: »

Ah, well, the BDSM community has foreseen this problem and have special safes that you can store the keys in. Some even come with a see-through dome so that you can torment your sub by letting him see them but not getting a chance to use them.

Maybe I should get one of those for the garage keys :rotfl:. To clarify, I don't keep my OH locked in the garage... although tbh I have thought about it a few times.

aileth

Well, this thread has certainly opened my eyes.

Now I'm constantly going to be eyeballing people for collars or VCBL (visible chastity belt lines).

Tropez

tea_lover wrote: »

Maybe I should get one of those for the garage keys :rotfl:. To clarify, I don't keep my OH locked in the garage... although tbh I have thought about it a few times.

It could be an idea. Best not to get one of the ones on a timer lock though because otherwise it might make a dent in your plans.

As for the OH, you could get a large cage with some handcuffs?

Tropez

aileth wrote: »

Well, this thread has certainly opened my eyes.

Now I'm constantly going to be eyeballing people for collars or VCBL (visible chastity belt lines).

That's just going to get you arrested.

Molly41

Emoticon wrote: »

I guess that my decision to stop seeing him is reasonable and I'm not over reacting then, from the vast majority of responses.

Have you unlocked him from the chastity belt since you made the decision not to see him? I hope you have :eek: