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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Tia

    I hope your scan is helpful. Iv'e had lots of scans over the years, not sure about wther it matters where you are in your cycle.

    I did write the letter and still very much waiting.I called the gp to chase again but there closed, will try again tommorow.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    IVF/ICSI/FET cycles currently ongoing.
    • Sewit: IVF LP. DR 13/1 Prostap. AMH4, 375 Gonal F. Scratch on CD12. Endo Scratch 3/1/14.
    • FrozenPenguin: ICSI LP. DR 13/1. suprecur. Gonal-F (137.5iu) from 5 Feb. EC w/c 17 Feb. Stims 5/2
    • Rowingirl: ICSI SP. Stims 27.01. EC 6/2.
    • Fairy Dust: IVF LP. DR 29/1. EC w/c 10 Feb.

    Tea Lover: ICSI planned in Feb
    Star02: ICSI planned for Jan/Feb. Short protocol
    loveactually.IVF planned for Feb. LP starting 14/2
    Wonder_woman. IVF planned for Feb/Mar
    Isla_red: ICSI planned for Feb. No slots so waiting for a new date
    lisawood78: Preparing for first Surrogacy IVF cycle. Est March 2014.


    Ovulation induction (Clomid unless otherwise stated)
    cwtw (insolitol)
    Jammy26: Clomid started Jan/14. 50mg
    tinkwings: Monitored cycle.
    Littleme82: On Clomid. HSG looks fine; FS appointment 04/03/14
    MrsDavo : Clomid 150mg, and Metformin 1500mg to try and induce ovulation, Next App 7th August 14.

    Awaiting FS or other appointment.
    angeltreats. awaiting IVF and varicocele repair in early 2014
    Bigmomma - fighting with stupid doctors for a referral
    Chocolaholic_chic: CD21 Bloods in Feb.
    Clevernamehere - referred to FS for fibroids.
    codemonkey: Deciding on next steps
    Danielley. discharged from FS - Referred for IVF
    Floaty: awaiting Lap&Dye 23rd Jan then, hopefully, referral for IVF.
    FairyDiamond: IVF Consultation 3/2/14
    Gettingthereslowly: First IVF meeting 4/2/14
    GlasweJen: Surrogacy preparation.
    goodvibes. Late Feb with FS for next steps.
    onestep (adoption)
    Picklekin: 2nd opinion referral
    Skint_Catt: Awaiting referal for pituitary growth
    Slinky_selina
    Smookle: IVF/ICSI referral Jan 2014
    tia86: PCOS scan w/c 17/2. FS appointment start of March
    vesper. Doing d2/21 bloods at the moment. Appointment 8 Feb


    Recent graduates:
    • Whattodonow: IVF LP. DR 15/12. Stim 4/1. EC 17/1. 19 eggs collected, 16 fertilised. 1,5dET 22/1 225iu Merional bfp.gif 02/02/14
    • ME!! Time2deal. ICSI SP. Stim 3/1. EC 15/1. 9 eggs collected. 5 fertilised. 1x5dET 20/01 AMH 6.6. 450iu Menopur + Centrotide. bfp.gif01/02/14
    • Peonie. IVF SP. Stim 1/1. EC 15/1. 13 eggs collected. 8 fertilized. 1x5dET 20/01. bfp.gif31/01/14
    • teaandcakeordeath. Natural bfp.giffrom 'just relaxing'! 26/01/14
    • Purcy81. Natural bfp.gif 7/12/2013
    • Derby2. Long protocol IVF. bfp.gif1/12/2013
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Enjoy your injection free day today Rowingirl. Sounds like a wonderful amount of follies, and fingers crossed for excellent fertilization.

    I totally miss chatting to you ladies!! But I won't post too much. I know it's meant well, but to be honest I always found it a bit hard when people kept posting after they got their BFP, so I'll resist the urge to chatter away. I'll do the list for a while though. Danielley said she would take over but is away at the moment.

    hugs to everyone. :)
  • lisawood78
    lisawood78 Posts: 3,884 Forumite
    PM i'd be livid if I was you!! But it appears you are, and that is equally getting you nowhere either. I don't know what else you can do apart from hassle hassle them til they damn well sort it out. Thinking of you and hopw they bloody well do something soon!!!

    Nowt to report here. Just waiting. Hubby going to speak to friend (Surros OH) tonight so hopefully will have some news later about next movement.

    Spending too much time Googling other peoples cycles and 2ww's again, spent far too many years doing it and telling myself it is silly, yet here I am doing it again!! And until I get the baby I've been trying for all those years, I doubt I will ever stop.
    Also been torturing myself with other peoples HPT progression pics!! One day ladies, one day for all of us x
    2 angels in heaven :A
  • lisawood78
    lisawood78 Posts: 3,884 Forumite
    t2d don't go anywhere, I don't want to speak for anyone else but I like your chatter !! You've come by that BFP the bloody hard way and deserve to talk about it! x
    2 angels in heaven :A
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Lisa thanks I'm just getting knowhere. Couldn't face cooking so had pizza from freezer. My appreciate is terrible, I just can't face food.i just want to go to sleep all the time. I really hope the wait isn't to long to be seen at the new hosp but fear it will be.i need to start the 3 provera a day to see if that will help, not sure what to o if that doesnt work.


    I've got everything crossed for you.
  • MrsDavo
    MrsDavo Posts: 198 Forumite
    Tia - I had a scan for PCOS, and I went for it the day after my period started ( late as usual lol ) it wasn't an issue at all.

    They did a normal belly scan and because she couldn't see my ovaries too great she did a dildo can one, although they don't "stick it up far at all" tmi!! But after that she told me what she saw so I knew the outcome straight away.

    Don't be too nervous, was over and done with within about 10 mins. Xx
  • vseviour
    vseviour Posts: 137 Forumite
    MrsDavo, I had the IVF before I moved, it's why we stayed so long as we were on the NHS waiting list and I wasn't sure what would happen when we moved to Northern Ireland. I had an interview at a temping agency at 10 weeks pregnant and didn't want to decieve anyone, so told them and they said it doesn't matter, you're not legally obliged to tell us at this point so we'll just pretend you haven't mentioned it. I also interviewed for my current job, but as it's temporary to cover sickness I didn't mention it. I told them at 16 weeks and they've been fine, excited even, but then they always knew I wasn't going to be around permanently. Good lick with interview x
  • MrsDavo
    MrsDavo Posts: 198 Forumite
    Thank you vseviour.

    I am just tired of putting things on hold "just incase we get pregnant next month! "
    I mean it's been 2 years now since our MMC and 3 years since we started trying for a baby. If we don't manage to have one I will always regret not forging a decent career and sticking at a part time admin job just because it would suit having a young baby to look after.
    I really hope I get it too, it's more money, although that's because if be moving back to 9-5 rather than part time shifts.

    We shall see, onwards and upwards eh!
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Ladies I'm not sure what to do, cramping pretty bad and tmi sorry just passed some rather large clots around 2inches each I couldn't get hold if my gp today and the nurse didn't call back either.
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