The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Part_Mouse

Tea

I did ponder that idea, the only problem being dh has seen hardly any money since Nov now things are so stressful right now. The only thing the GP said was to go on the pill, that sure won't help ttc. Mind you I can count the number of days break iv'e had on one hand from bleeding this month so no dtd for me. I bought something nice for valentines day to wear, prob tmi but !!!!!! was the point? its not like you can dtd when bleeding grrr.Thanks body

codemonkey

Part_Mouse wrote: »

Tea
I bought something nice for valentines day to wear, prob tmi but !!!!!! was the point? its not like you can dtd when bleeding grrr.Thanks body

Why not? It's a bit messier but not impossible.

littleme82

I've just read the article and agree with most however I then (yes I know!) decided to read the comments and look at what this stupid a*se has written!

John, Peterborough,
The problem is IVF. Years ago infertile couples would have adopted, nowadays they utilise the selfish option instead. Ban IVF and the adoption crisis will be solved. It'll also save the NHS millions in pointless fertility treatment costs. That money can then be redirected to providing medicine for life threatening illnesses.


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2140586/Scandal-babies-parents-wont-adopt-theyre-called-Chrystal-Chardonnay.html#ixzz2rnnepm5D
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Are some of these comments for real?!

tea_lover

Code - nah I can't. Totally get that some people can (and fair play to them) but it's not for me! Although tbh my OH has as much interest in sex as I have in the workings of the offside rule so it's not really an issue for us at the moment.

Part_Mouse

Code im really trying not to be @rsey but my anger is bubling up. !!!!!! am I supposed to do, bleed until someone decides to refer me? I understand why my fs left but what about me, I can't get anyone to help.I know its been said before but due to the dr's not listening my right tube is screwed.Maybe I should sew up my lady garden then no more bleeding.

Gawd I hate Dr's.

codemonkey

tea_lover wrote: »

Code - nah I can't. Totally get that some people can (and fair play to them) but it's not for me! Although tbh my OH has as much interest in sex as I have in the workings of the offside rule so it's not really an issue for us at the moment.

I hear ya. I will be able to say, hand on heart tomorrow at my HSG that we've not had any sex since this cycle began.

Apparently I need to be able to say that because even though DH has no sperm, if I say we have had sex, they wont do it. There's too much box ticking.

tea_lover

codemonkey wrote: »

I hear ya. I will be able to say, hand on heart tomorrow at my HSG that we've not had any sex since this cycle began.

We've not had sex since the last ice-age began.

Part_Mouse

Code my dh wouldnt ever go there which mean next to no sex for us.

Part_Mouse

Code I had a rather big op last year and still dtd just lied as I knew that without a shed load of treatment theres no chance.

codemonkey

Part_Mouse wrote: »

Code I had a rather big op last year and still dtd just lied as I knew that without a shed load of treatment theres no chance.

Yeah, I had to do a pregnancy test a few minutes after being told that DH had no sperm. Pretty pointless waste of time and test sticks.