The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

claire16c

Part_Mouse wrote: »

Claire im afraid im not joking.i m so upset right now. Ive not had any good exerienes with any gp at my practice. When i had majour surgery last year it took over a year to fight to get the surgery. I also have a huge history of depression etc and one gp gave me 6 months worth of anti depressants all at once.

Can you move practices? It might work quicker long term than faffing about with idiots.I honestly can't believe a medical professional said that to you! It's not like you're in the Bible Belt in the US or seeing a black magic 'dr' in Africa.

You could move drs and still report that silly woman. Is that what she says to every patient- god will cure them? Does she actually do any work? The nhs should not be paying a dr to say stuff like that!

I would spend the rest of the day writing the complaint letters and finding another practice and making an appt there.

tea_lover

Phew, does that mean I can stop dancing? Am exhausted .

9 is a great haul, well done . Am sending lots of fertilisation vibes your way x.

Clevernamehere

PM I cannot believe she said that to you. That is shocking! How do you even argue with someone like that? You have to move practice.

Part_Mouse

Yay t2d so pleased for you.make sure you get as much rest as poss.
Rg i cant get hold of my fs so not sure if shes left now. Ineed to think about what to do next. I fear its going to be months until i can start treatment again.

purcy81

Hooray t2d that's a whole lot of eggs!

Good lord pm your doctor shouldn't be saying things like that what an utter idiot. Big hugs x

Hugs to everyone else too I'm still keeping an eye out and my fingers crossed for you all x

Relurks

Part_Mouse

When i get in im going to have to look for anther gp.so not what is needed right now

Whattodonow

Well done t2d!! Take it easy now. Sending good thoughts to your eggs!

PM !!!!!! is going on with the doctors in your area? Do you think if you got referred to another FS you would get different (and more effective) treatment? The way youve been treated so far is unusual and seems, honestly, a bit cruel. Maybe anew specialist wouldn't be a bad thing
Complaint deffo needed - that is disgraceful. Can't believe a GP - a scientist - would talk to you like that.

Fairy dust - exciting! X

Whattodonow

Hugs chickpea x

Sad shoe - that is indeed life. Don't feel bad. They will deal with it when (not if) you get pregnant. Happens all the time. I hope you DO get preggers in next few months

Part_Mouse

I accept that people have there own beliefs but god cant get rid of my pcos.give me 2 working tubes again of fix my dh swimmer probs. Not a helpful thing to saw when i need medicine if i have any hope of ttc.

Whattodonow

Agreed. What does she think god is going to do? Put Jesus II in your belly?

I'm so appalled at this. I seriously think she should be struck off/disciplined. It's a disgrace.