Were/are your second children anything like the first?

poet123

notanewuser wrote: »

Its not so much nagging as repeated asking. DH, in laws, my sister, friends, mums at nursery etc. It's a bit waring, that's all.

If your DH wants another child and you don't you will need to work that one through I suppose. Ultimately, till they can enable men to do it you should have the final say though!!

Missme

notanewuser wrote: »

Its not so much nagging as repeated asking. DH, in laws, my sister, friends, mums at nursery etc. It's a bit waring, that's all.

So, what's your honest answer? "I don't want any more"?

Like I said, it's your choice. You need to have a frank conversation with your OH. everyone else can go screw

notanewuser

poet123 wrote: »

If your DH wants another child and you don't you will need to work that one through I suppose. Ultimately, till they can enable men to do it you should have the final say though!!

Had 7 years of that before having DD. He knew he wanted kids, I didn't know if I did. I was always a "maybe".

Agreed to have DD. now I'm back to "maybe" again.

notanewuser

Missme wrote: »

So, what's your honest answer? "I don't want any more"?

Like I said, it's your choice. You need to have a frank conversation with your OH. everyone else can go screw

I don't know.

Missme

notanewuser wrote: »

I don't know.

Think you do! And it's fine.

I love babies. Small children not so much . Big kids - cool!

If I were better at being pregnant I'd be a surrogate and wet nurse.

gunsandbanjos

applecrumble24 wrote: »

Surely you can see that's just circumstance though? My son had an infantile convulsion brought on by a high temperature when teething. After that, I gave him calpol at the first sniff of a temperature as instructed by my doctor. I've lost count of the number of doses he's had in his nearly three years.

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So true. I've lost count of the number of bottles let alone doses of ibuprofen & paracetamol I've given DD! She's nearly 10 and got a multitude of medical issues before anyone jumps on me for that:rotfl: