Angry,upset and hurt regarding partners words tonight

Errata

aileth wrote: »

Chubby isn't attractive? What about all those blokes that pay morbidly obese women hundreds, if not thousands, of pounds to be with them because they find them a huge turn-on?

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They have a serious sexual problem, that's what.

New_and_Improved_Me

Errata wrote: »

They have a serious sexual problem, that's what.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

just have a fork lift handy...incase they fall on you.....

heartbreak_star

Errata wrote: »

They have a serious sexual problem, that's what.

Nope, just a fetish. Most fetishes are normal and harmless

And out of interest, weight =/= size. I know a girl that weighs the same as I do but is 2-3 dress sizes larger - I powerlift, use kettlebells and barbell train so I have a fair whack of muscle.

HBS x

New_and_Improved_Me

give me a YOUNG slim girl anyday....over a young FAT girl....

heartbreak_star

NaIM...get back under your bridge

HBS x

New_and_Improved_Me

heartbreak_star wrote: »

NaIM...get back under your bridge

HBS x

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

can only go under bridge till after dark.....will have to 'Hang about' till then...

It was part of the agreement.....:D:D

Errata

heartbreak_star wrote: »

Nope, just a fetish. Most fetishes are normal and harmless



HBS x

Fetish is one word that could be used when a man buys women's flesh for his own sexual gratification, but it's not one I would use.F

paulineb_2

New_and_Improved_Me wrote: »

give me a YOUNG slim girl anyday....over a young FAT girl....

For someone who claims to have been previously obese, if you were then you might know what its like to be carrying extra weight, words such as FAT in capitals dont really help.

Ive been called fat all my life, even at 9 stones because I have a curvy shape as opposed to not. I have pretty strong self worth, because if I didnt Id probably have ended up with some kind of eating disorder.

We live in a messed up world where peoples weight can be the focus of such attention. Id never dream of pointing out that someone had big ears or a colour of hair I didnt like, or a big nose.

But people who are overweight, well from my personal experience, it seems ok for random people in the street to shout names at you, such as FAT.

And has been said before, you might prefer that slim young girl to the fat young girl, but if that slim young girl was a nasty piece of work, you wouldnt last two minutes.

I work in the fitness industry now and I applaud anyone who makes the effort to get off their backside and go to classes. My brother is a personal trainer and we were talking the other day about how some people find it very easy to build muscle without having to lift weights, genetics play a huge part.

Im the only person in my family who has ever struggled with my weight. My mum is in her 60s and 8 and a half stones and she struggles to put on weight.

I just think when people are throwing the fat word around, realise that people all have their struggles. Theres no need for fat bashing of any sort. If you dont like fat women, leave them alone and go for someone slimmer.

But to say most men would prefer someone thin to someone heavier, its not actually the case. Everyone has individual preferences and thats the way it should be.

lostinrates

paulineb wrote: »

But to say most men would prefer someone thin to someone heavier, its not actually the case. Everyone has individual preferences and thats the way it should be.

There are even cultural preferences and historical ones. DH, for example, likes curvy women. I'm not talking about weight, I'm talking a bout shape. He likes butt and breasts, and very willowy women, whether slim or carrying more weight, don't do it for him as much.

I'm less defined to a physical type really.

cells

If your woman ever says anything along the lines of

Do you love me
Am I attractive
Do I look nice in this
Do you prefer me over x

The answer is yes

The alternative is an upset woman who never forgets